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Anger Management Group 3 Hrs
(*Accepted by Courts)

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Saturday, May 14  Time: 10am – 1pm
Saturday, June 11  Time: 10am – 1pm
Saturday, July16  Time: 10am – 1pm

3 Hour Anger Management Completion Certificates accepted by the courts will be given if requested. *Pre registration only through noon Thursday before date of group.

Location: 433 Maple Avenue, Westbury, New York 11590

Cost: $150 each [Small groups, Limited seating ]

Register with Paypal   Credit Cards accepted via telephone.

  • Enhance all aspects of stress and anger management
  • Communicate more effectively
  • Be happier

Explore strategies to release anger, reduce stress and deal effectively with others. Anger and communication issues are highly affected by stress levels. 

The best predictor of a positive outcome is your willingness to honestly examine and admit the consequences of your problem and actions and have the intention to change patterns. Your anger and stress impacts your relationships, health, work life and financial situation.

Questions? Contact Eileen Now for a Complimentary Telephone Consult
516 623 4353               eileen@balanceandpower.com

10% discount for Veterans and their families
Register Now: *Credit Cards accepted via telephone. (516) 623-4
**Pre registration only through noon Thursday before date of group.

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When:
Saturday, Aug 15, 2015  Time: 10am – 1pm

3 Hour Anger Management Completion Certificates accepted by the courts will be given if requested. Advance Registration only.

Location: 433 Maple Avenue, Westbury, New York 11590

Cost: $150 [Small groups, Limited seating ] PRE REGISTRATION Thru 8/13 midnight.

  • Enhance all aspects of stress and anger management
  • Communicate more effectively
  • Be happier

Explore strategies to release anger, reduce stress and deal effectively with others. Anger and communication issues are highly affected by stress levels.

The best predictor of a positive outcome is your willingness to honestly examine and admit the consequences of your problem and actions and have the intention to change patterns. Your anger and stress impacts your relationships, health, work life and financial situation.

Questions? Contact Eileen Now for a Complimentary Telephone Consult
Ph: 516 623 4353
Email: eileen@balanceandpower.com

10% discount for Veterans and their families

Register Now: with Paypal  eileen@balanceandpower.com

eileen@balanceandpower.com/events,php  

Aug 15: Cost: $150

*Credit Cards accepted via telephone. 516 623 4353

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There is no reason to let a difficult person or situation have power over your state of being. Sometimes we encounter those individuals who, for whatever reason, can be difficult to deal with.  The behavior/words of difficult people can even make you feel like losing your temper.  Keeping your cool and staying calm is important, especially if/when you are ready to confront them.

Avoiding a difficult person is not always in your best interest, especially if you live or work together, this can become a source of stress and anxiety. In these situations, it is best to kindly address the problem while not letting their actions or mood affect you. You may want to think about what you want to say to a difficult person before you actually talk to them to express your feelings directly, ie: tell the person how their actions/words make you feel (without taking on the role of a victim) and when possible encourage them toward a more positive course of action. Another approach for dealing with a difficult individual is to gain a deeper understanding of who that person is by asking them why they do or say certain things, and perhaps guide them to a shift in perspective.

Often a lot can be accomplished when you take the time to listen actively and perhaps offer up alternative perspectives.  Try to approach the conversation objectively without being judgmental or defensive. If the person is open to the idea, try coming to an agreement. If approaching them fails, let it go and move on. When this is impossible to do it’s important to find help and get support.

Relationship coaching is intended to help people in any relationship such as married couples, unmarried couples, family members or co-workers. A relationship is always, like our lives, in a state of movement and change. A relationship coach helps you maximize that change in a positive way, places you more in control of it and of how you feel. Looking at events and what a person says in a different way, creating a new perspective or re-framing can help you reconnect with the positive aspects in a relationship and empower you to let go of the old patterns and perhaps, the relationship.

Download The 10 Tips to Building a Strong Relationship (pdf)

Contact me today for a Free 1:1 Consultation and for interactive workshops-trainings www.balanceandpower.com  516 623 4353

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How to SOAR! with Resilience® and Create Optimal Happiness & Productivity is a new 4 week Mastermind Group available from Eileen Lichtenstein and Balance & Power, Inc. Each week will move you forward with specific topics-goals.

 

Sign up NOW: 

How to SOAR! with Resilience® and Create Optimal Happiness & Productivity
Mastermind Group 

When: 4 weeks, Tuesdays: Jan. 7, 14, 21, 28, 2014
Time: 8-9pm ET 

This is a 4 week Mastermind Group.  Each week will move you forward with specific topics-goals. This 4 week coaching/mentoring program will bring:

  • Increased confidence and self-esteem
  • Balance in your life and a healthy and well-adjusted mind and body
  • Success in your career and maximized potential

Each registrant will receive Eileen’s 3 new ebooks!

  • Anger Management: Strategies & Techniques
  • Overcome Overwhelm NOW: Stress Management Strategies & Techniques
  • Gain Clarity & Confidence with EFT

You will embark on a transformative journey of self-development that will guide you to amazing levels of happiness and abundance in your life. You will learn about components of happiness and productivity and how to apply it to your own circumstances. You will be coached and mentored how to implement and adapt the strategies to your own life on an ongoing basis.

  • Are you ready for your life to be transformed?
  • Are you ready to reduce stress to optimal levels?
  • Can you imagine being happy most of the time?
  • Are you ready to make some personal shifts and see your career soar?
  • How can you become and stay inspired?
  • Can you imagine being surrounded by positive people and creating optimal relationships?

 Stress – Anger Management:
During this course Eileen will take you through Stress-Anger Management Techniques and Strategies so you can be happier and more productive. 

Effective Time Management:
You will learn to recognize what isn’t working in your life and will be given the tools to assist you in the awareness necessary for your transformation to leading a balanced life. You will learn how to prioritize effectively, create and reach realistic goals and positive outcomes. 

How To Break The Conflict Cycle, Maintain Positive Relationships and Access Your best Communication Style:
Eileen will coach you on how to break the ‘Conflict Cycle’ and how to ‘Access Your Best Communication Style’. 

EFT Emotional Freedom Technique:
You will learn Emotional Freedom Technique, also known as EFT/ tapping, so you can use your own body’s energies to remove negative emotions. 

This Mastermind Group can start turning your ailing business – or life – around. And…
Even if you’re doing well, this course will propel you to a higher level of success and happiness! Thinking about becoming an entrepreneur? Looking for a career change, a reinvention? 

And if you are simply feeling overwhelmed with life, “sandwich generation” parenting or relationship challenges, this program will help get you unstuck, be fearless: SOAR! with Resilience® and Create Optimal Happiness & Productivity 

What You Will Learn:

  • How to reduce stress
  • Personal Goal Setting
  • Overcoming Obstacles
  • Setting limits
  • Relationship building and effective communication
  • How to get and stay inspired

What You Will Gain:

  • Increased Self Confidence
  • Peace of Mind
  • Balance
  • Higher Income Potential
  • A Feeling of Well Being and Improved Health
  • A Better Understanding of Your True Capabilities

The time is now: 
Start taking your personal or professional life to a higher level of success and satisfaction. In this course Eileen takes you through her personal journey of accomplishment while showing how you too can achieve the same peace and balance she has achieved in her own life. 

Call NOW FREE  Consult: (516) 623-4353 

 

How to SOAR! with Resilience® and Create Optimal Happiness & Productivity
Mastermind Group 

When: 4 weeks, Tuesdays: Jan. 7, 14, 21, 28, 2014
Time: 8-9pm ET 
Cost: $120 for 4 weeks

Register Now: http://www.balanceandpower.com/events.php    

516 623 4353  Credit Card  or Pay Pal

 

 

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We all know them in business, personal and family relationships.  First, go inward and understand that you are fault-free. Here are a few tips that will make dealing and interacting with the difficult easier:

1. Ask  yourself, “How important is this person to me at this moment?” Being careful not to devalue them, certain people have greater or lesser significance in our lives. If the party in question does not hold great regard in your life, are you willing to simply let the issue slide and walk away?

2. How important is this issue? Will it matter ten years from now? If not, let it go. It is not worth  your time and effort.

3. Can you accept the person as they are?  If you do, you must be at peace with him/her so as not to become resentful and angry later on.

4. Can I change my perception of this person? A less judgmental observation allows  interaction in a less critical manner.

ie: Perhaps change “controlling” to very insecure”.

5. If the party is an important part of your  life set boundaries and guidelines your relationship.

6. Establish a common ground with them, identify something you both have in common. By doing so, this allows both parties to feel a certain connection and increases the levels of understanding and trust.

7. Build trust. Showing genuine interest and concern in them eases their anxieties and fears, allowing them to feel more comfortable in your presence. Once achieved, they will most likely become more cooperative with you.

8. Bring out the best in them. Avoid allowing their bad behavior to influence how you behave. Find some goodness and focus on that.

9. Remember to be fair and open-minded to what they say, believe, and do. Refrain from criticism and judgments, be understanding and compassionate instead.

10. Some of our greatest gifts in life have been the most difficult people who cross our paths. View them as an important teacher who is enabling you to learn and grow. 

We always have a choice to release the person from our lives or to “work” at the relationship. Choose wisely; often it’s irrevocable.

Need help with this? Contact me for a FREE 20 minute telephone consult/strategy session  516 623 4353

 

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Do you like to “vent” your negative emotions?

Many people think that expressing anger is healthy-minded and relieves their feelings. Not often so. Studies show that expressing anger only aggravates it.  I’’ve found this to be true, for myself and for clients. Often anger (a natural emotion) can be ended by silence.  Many, when they “get going” can escalate rapidly  into a fury. It’s better to behave calmly and  communicate effectively when time passes.

A large section of  the “Anger Management” curriculum is MBSR: Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction, which includes relaxation breathing, guided meditation and progressive muscle relaxation.  Discussing anger challenges with a professional and keeping a log of incidents and your reactions reveals patterns and triggers that can be reversed.  EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) helps too!

You may contact me for a 15 minute FREE consult.  516 623 4353  www.balanceandpower.com 

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