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Clinical EFT is highly effective in reducing depressive symptoms in a variety of populations and settings. EFT was equal or superior to TAU and other active treatment controls. 

The posttest effect size for EFT (d =1.31) was larger than that measured in meta-analyses of antidepressant drug trials and psychotherapy studies. 
EFT produced large treatment effects whether delivered in group or individual format, and participants maintained their gains over time. 
This meta-analysis extends the existing literature through facilitation of a better understanding of the variability and clinical significance of depression improvement subsequent to EFT treatment.
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Here’s what brain research says will make you happy:

  • “What am I grateful for?” Just asking -searching helps; you don’t need answers!
  • Label -name negative emotions. Your brain isn’t so bothered  when you name it.
  • Decide. No perfectionist thinking – good enough usually is!
  • Hugs, hugs, hugs.  Research shows getting five hugs a day for four weeks increases happiness big time.

Everything is interconnected:

  • Gratitude improves sleep.
  • Sleep reduces pain.
  • Reduced pain improves your mood.
  • Improved mood reduces anxiety.
  • Reduced anxiety improves focus and planning.
  • Focus and planning help with decision making.
  • Decision making further reduces anxiety and improves enjoyment.
  • Enjoyment gives you more to be grateful for!
  • Enjoyment also makes it more likely you’ll exercise and be social, which, in turn, will make you happier.

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Changing the way you think is the most useful and powerful anti-anxiety strategy.

Here’s how you can do this – by yourself or with a coach or mental health practitioner:

1) notice what you are saying to yourself

2) disrupt and displace the self-talk that makes you anxious or does not serve you

3) substitute more affirmative, positive or useful self-talk.

4) learn and practice EFT  with a qualified practioner/coach

This four-step process really works if you will practice it and commit to it.

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“When you change the way you look at things the things you look at will change.”

– Wayne Dyer

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ebook-cover-angerForgiveness has been said to be an antidote to anger  in your life because every time you remember the injustice, and you will remember it since forgiving is NOT forgetting, you choose to release the perpetrator from the debt that she/he owes you.  You may read about the Biehl’s amazing journey here:

http://thejourneyofhope.blogspot.ca/2009/03/amy-biehl-and-improbable-tale-of.html

And…The Mayo Clinic Staff reports that researchers are claiming that, in addition to improving your spiritual health, forgiveness may have benefits for your physical health, too.  This is definitely something that warrants our attention!  It is being said that “letting go of grudges and bitterness can make way for compassion, kindness and peace, and that forgiveness can lead to:

  •  Healthier relationships
  • Greater spiritual and psychological well-being
  • Less anxiety, stress and hostility
  • Lower blood pressure
  • Fewer symptoms of depression
  • Lower risk of alcohol and substance abuse”

Well, this helps explain the statement I’ve heard and read again and again that if you experience a high level of gratitude you cannot be depressed.  This makes sense since depression is anger suppressed.  Imagine a line with frustration in the middle.  It can go either way- one end is depression(extremely suppressed anger) and the other is a high anger level – often in an inappropriate, aggressive way.

The University of Maryland School of Medicine  is researching the connection between anger and  “unforgiveness”. Anger is a component of unforgiveness and anger is a health risk.  Then is unforgiveness  a health risk  as well? Included in the research are studies with aids patients.  Knowing more about the nature and course of anger expression in the context of unforgiveness will ultimately help define and clarify this area of research.

Now I’ll share a few important points that can be helpful in letting go of anger- something I’ve learned as an Advanced EFTtapping  (Emotional Freedom Techniques) Certified Practitioner in a training I attended and has been reinforced in my trainings to facilitate Anger Management.

  • As the victim, it’s OK to forgive only a small percent.
  • Perhaps the other’s behavior was impacted by a chemical/emotional imbalance
  • *** The other was doing what he/she knew how to do – perhaps learned – no matter.
  • It’s possible that the action was not meant “personally” – it was simply an “M.O.”
  • It’s impossible to change another person’s way of dealing; only your own.

If you or someone you love gets help with managing anger and/or letting it go as a victim, then stress is automatically addressed and therefore health will improve too!

 Balance & Power, Inc. has been addressing stress and anger management issues for two decades, corporately and  in the educational and private sectors, and is now facilitating Workplace Bullying Prevention trainings.

Download: Workplace Bullying Prevention Programs (pdf)

Bullying in the workplace, the schools and at home has reached epidemic proportions – it is our goal to help eliminate these type of situations. I believe inner strength and being centered are keys to optimal productivity and happiness. I’m a Certified Anger Management Specialist accepted by the US courts, a former Biofeedback Practitioner and faculty member Hofstra University. My office is in Westbury, NY, the telephone, Video Skype or on your site.  

When you’re having difficulties with forgiveness or anger, success and career coaching, anger and stress management strategies, & EFT can turn it around!  I’m a certified Anger Management Specialist-1 Fellow accepted by the courts.

Call me for a complimentary consult: 516 623 4353   http://www.balanceandpower.com/anger.php 

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Testimonials:  What people are saying about Eileen Lichtenstein

EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique)

“Dear Eileen, We wanted to thank you for sharing your knowledge with our chapter of The Holistic Moms network. Not only was your presentation enlightening and informative for our members, but it was also fun! You allowed the space for us to connect to one another while delving into our own hearts. Thank you for giving us direction and teaching us a practical way to incorporate EFT into our lives as busy mothers! The impact of what you do is far reaching. When peace occurs in our homes, it branches out into our community and beyond. With much gratitude!”
Ali, Robyn and the Nassau South Shore Holistic Moms Network

Thank you for your presentation today “EFT 4 ADD”, it was wonderful.  I really enjoyed learning from you.
Patricia A. Craig, Esq.

“Eileen did a wonderful job helping me at a critical time, especially overcoming fear of flying
– extremely useful on my long, long trips between NY and NZ! Her expertise is broad and deep. Check out her book!”
– Connie Atkinson author award winning novel, “The Brotherhood of Purity”, public health educator and Co-owner and grower for a 4000+ tree orchard in New Zealand

“I would like to highly recommend Eileen Lichtenstein and her work with Emotional Freedom Technique. I have experienced her work in her workshop in a group, and privately. During both experiences I found Eileen to be highly-skilled and deeply empathetic.

Eileen was excellent at explaining this simple, yet profound healing technique that often has immediate results. And also importantly, Eileen was highly skilled at guiding us through our EFT healing processes. Her verbiage revealed her years of professional and eclectic experience in the field of holistic health.”
– Carol Leitner, MBA, Mount Sinai School of Medicine, Baruch College / Marketer Holistic Doctors and Practitioners, Health Expo and Events Planner / Certified Kripalu Yoga Instructor, Chair Yoga, Thai Yoga Bodyworker

“Thank you so much for the EFT sessions – they genuinely changed my life! The snooze button no longer rules my mornings, and the afternoon “witching hour” has been made much more pleasant thanks to the techniques you taught me. And I’m no longer bringing bad feelings and frustrations about work into my home life. I highly recommend EFT to anyone who might be interested – anyone can benefit from it! Thanks again!”
– Julie Cohen, Work @ Home Corp. Exec., Mom/Student. Oceanside, NY

From Dr. Bruce Kesten:

Eileen, I admire your energy and style! We all enjoyed your presentation very much and I have shared the EFT technique with a few of my clients. Thank you so much for your generosity in presenting the Emotional Freedom Technique . I was happy that we got to have our meeting in your conference room at such a great location for most of the Eastern Group Psychotherapy Society Long Island members”.
– Deborah Ross, LCSW, CASAC, CGP

“Thank you Eileen! You were wonderful. I enjoyed learning from you…the best I have felt in days and still do tonight; thanks for putting on the event!”
– Jara T. Weiss, RN, www.moongoddessadventures.com 

“After just one session with you, I have to say that you are a very special being with a wonderful energy and spirit. After our session, I recalled the importance of learning (not to mention “hanging out” or networking) with an upbeat, enthusiastic, and fun coach/teacher. And that’s you! Your attitude makes a huge difference in confidence, motivation, and my attitude about the subject of EFT.”
– Ron Haugen, CEO Proficiency Training Programs

“I’d been doing some self-study on EFT and was getting some reasonable results but after one short session with Eileen, I not only discovered what I was missing with regards to tapping, I immediately felt better…I felt like there was real progress. Eileen not only is an experienced tapping coach, it’s abundantly clear that she truly cares about the people she works with.
Got an issue? (and who doesn’t??) I urge you to engage Eileen as your coach. She’s easy to work with and gets results.
– Jeff Goldberg, Jeff Goldberg & Associates

“After a few personal coaching-EFT sessions with Eileen via video Skype addressing my ‘snake’ phobia I am well on my way to living without fear!? And now… saw a snake when starting to walk through the grass and did not freak out!? Said to my friend, let’s go another way, turned and walked the other way and had NONE of the fear, angst, anxiety that I’ve had previously!” – Inez Bracy, Transformation Coach, Florida

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Workshops:

“Thank you for your lecture on Reverse Procrastination with EFT. It brought out and large crowd of enthusiastic people who listened with great interest and began the tapping technique immediately. The Emotional Freedom Technique was new to many of us, yet it was easy to learn and to practice. Your presentation was interesting and upbeat and held our interest. I hope you will consider presenting at the Long Beach Public Library again.”
-Edie Kalickstein, Programmer

“Thank you for your wonderful presentation last Friday. Wonderful insight and demonstration!Enjoyed it very much!”
– Marcia McCarroll, LMSW

“I would like to take this opportunity to thank you for yet another fantastic program. “Dealing With Difficult People” was well-received by attendees. Your PowerPoint presentation was especially impressive and I’m sure the pearls of wisdom provided to our patrons will have positive effects on their lives.”
– SR, Hempstead Public Library Program Coordinator

Eileen is an inspiration to me. She is always finding and implementing the best, most up to date ways to reach out to and serve her client base.”
– Alison Gilbert, owner, MARKETING BYTES Business Marketing Solutions
www.MarketingBytes.biz

“Eileen, On behalf of the Graduate School, I would like to thank you for the participation in this winter’s “Time Management and Stress Reduction” Colloquium. It was a tremendous success and we had an overwhelming positive response. Your commitment and involvement with graduate education programs such as our Graduate Student Advocate Colloquium contributes to the continued success of our Graduate Student community. Thank you once again for playing a valuable role by sharing your time and expertise at this semester’s event.”
– Lawrence B. Martin, Dean of the Graduate School
Stony Brook State University of New York

“Thank you for the compassionate guidance and assisstance you gave me during our sessions last year. You gave me invaluable tools that I will use my whole life. I have recommended your services to others as well. I hope your life work and business continues to grow and prosper! God Bless.”
With Gratitude, – Cathy Palermo

“I want to thank you so very much for helping me in my quest to speak and give presentations in public. I saw a remarkable difference at my first presentation using the EFT, I was very calm and relaxed, there was no anxiety. I have since been using this technique before stressful situations with increasingly positive results, i.e I feel more confident and sure of myself… I am still a long way off from my goal but each situation represents practice which in turn will become perfect.”
With Much gratitude,
– Hannah Park Lusterman, SOC Appreciation Marketing, www.thereferralspecialist.com 

Eileen, I just wanted to let you know….
“The social media event that I did today was a huge success!!! We had over 100 people in attendance and not only was I extremely comfortable, I was able to deliver a clear and concise message that was educational and inspired people. Thank you again for your help… I really do appreciate it.”
– Bill McCartney, Fear of Speaking EFT Video

“I’ve known Eileen for several years through networking venues in Long Island. She is always positive, encouraging and supportive, a great “go-to” professional with any life-career challenges.
– Sheldon “SHELLY” Raskin, SOLAVEI
Success Coaching:

“Eileen, thank you for helping me see the world through my creative lens again. My life had become blurry due to the many challenges and responsibilities I was facing… I’m finally able to connect the dots and to express myself clearly. I can access my true self and reframe my challenges into positive possibilities”.
– RH, Special Educator

Eileen’s wisdom and expertise are amazing. She helps
people deal with their fears, anxieties and insecurities, and
guides them toward the success and happiness they long for.

– Barbora Knobova PhD, Author and Speaker

I appreciate all that you have done for me since knowing you this past year as my life-career coach. People like you are hard to come by, who truly care and take a sincere interest in a person’s well-being.
– Jeanette Mazzilli

“Eileen is my colleague from Motivational Whisperers, and she was also a featured guest on my radio show. Eileen’s wisdom and expertise are amazing. She helps people deal with their fears, anxieties and insecurities, and guides them toward the success and happiness they long for.What I personally appreciate about Eileen is her kindness, open-mindedness and sense of humor. She is creative, loving, understanding and patient. No matter what kind of “demons” you’re currently struggling with in your personal or professional life, Eileen is the one that will help you move forward effortlessly and painlessly.”
– Barbora Knobova PhD, Author and Speaker

“I’ve had the pleasure to work with Eileen Lichtenstein, CEO of Balance and Power, Inc. during the last year. Eileen’s dedication to her craft and the numerous individuals, businesses, and not-for-profits she has assisted locally and across the globe is apparent in her workshops, seminars and individual counseling. Her professionalism and expertise and the ability to share the skills that have brought her personal success, has helped the people she works with achieve a higher level of success, prosperity, and balance in their own lives. I recommend her highly to anyone who needs assistance in accomplishing their personal and business goals.”
– Karen Bonnet, KLB Services/Public Relations & Marketing (Long Island, NY)

“Eileen is one of the most dedicated Career Coaches I work with. She will go the extra mile for her clients. Everyone loves her!”
– Dawn Abraham
www.qualified-lifecoach.com

“Eileen gave an excellent, meaningful presentation today to the LI/NYC Area Young Widow/ers group I run. I receive only positive feedback from the many attendees who benefited from hearing what she offered on how to empower ourselves, despite the stresses life throws at us. I was impressed by her professional delivery that was both personable and insightful. She should be proud of the positive impact she clearly is making on so many people’s lives.”
– Ilene Schuss
LI/NYC Area Young Widow/ers

“Eileen Lichtenstein is a passionate and vital coach who works with both body and mind to create the balance and power of being who you are meant to be. In her capacity as workshop facilitator she brought great inspiration and ideas to the group, and as a colleague working in the same field with midlife women, Eileen also brings her considerable experience to bear on any groups she participates in. If you are looking for a coach, Eileen is an excellent choice.”
– Jacqueline Wales
CEO and Founder of Fearless Fifties

“Eileen is truly an amazing life coach. She is great to work with. If you are looking to reach goals that you think are almost impossible to attain, whether career or personal, visit with or call Eileen… She will get you there…and quickly!”
– Susan Brozinsky

“I want to let you know, Eileen, that since our sessions I’ve really been able to relax and approach life with a positive outlook. Thank you!’
– Steven Edelstein, Franchise Owner & Entrepreneur
The Island Financial Group

“I have worked with Eileen for over a year. She helps me stay focus on my action plan. And, she gives me great feedback on my business ideas. In addition, she introduced me to several contacts that can help move my business to a higher level. It has been fun working with Eileen and I look forward to continue doing so.”
– Laticia Howard, Christian’s Inspiration, Inc.

Stress and Anger Management:

Eileen has helped me through the darkest moments of my life; her support was unbelievable. I would not have been able to get through my divorce and family being torn apart without her help. When I was totally lost she guided me through the road map back to my life. I could never thank her enough”.
– JD, PSEG Employee

“Working with Eileen has been tremendously helpful for dealing with stress and given me tools to overcome my fears and come to terms with making the best of what I can accomplish and letting the rest of it be. Thank you thank you so much!!”
– Pamela Higgins,
Certified Health Coach

I really enjoyed your presentation last night. It could not have come at a better time. I’ve been very, very busy, feeling over-committed and stressed… I’m taking to heart your suggestion to find and maintain the balance. This weekend with work stuff piling up, chores that have to be done and then that absolutely gorgeous weekend of weather on tap, I’m going to start with a quiet meditation tomorrow morning and really be present to the choices I make, be mindful of them, be calm and concentrate on being in balance with whatever I’m doing. Thank you for the reminder, not only about how important it is to do that, and to actually take action and make it happen.”
– AH., Melville, NY

“Eileen Lichtenstein’s audio CD has helped me so much with my migraines. In only one week of listening and doing the relaxation exercises I have not gotten any headaches or migraines.”
– NZ, Anger Management Client

“My coaching sessions with Eileen for stress and anger management have inspired me to walk through my life with a higher level of consciousness, to observe all things and situations without jumping in, having a strong reaction and becoming agitated.”
– Anora S. Office Manager to Healthcare Administrator

“I believe we all went away with some useful tips on balancing our lives and reducing our stress levels.” – JB, VP Credit and Loan Administration, The Suffolk County National Bank

Moving Meditation Audio Series:

“I like the professional sound of the audio and music mix. Though I’ve done yoga, I never had a guided moving meditation before, and it’s nice to breathe into the movements.”
– Krista G.

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If you are a mom and are struggling with negative emotions such as anger, guilt, tiredness or need help with motivation or dealing with the in-laws, this modality is for you! Even the best moms struggle with these issues. Whether your kids are toddlers or teens, this book is an ongoing tool to relieve negative emotions and enjoy your role as a mom.

Emotional Freedom Technique image008also known at EFT/ tapping is the talk of the day. This amazing new discovery is based on the body’s energies and a simple statement that the cause of all negative emotions is a disruption in the energy system. It may be explained as the modern version of acupuncture without the needles and acupressure without pain, used in conjunction with peak performance success coaching.

Some of The Benefits That Emotional Freedom Technique Deals With:
Confidence and Self-Esteem ~ Stress, Anxiety ~ Anger ~ Weight Loss ~ Cravings ~ ~ ADHD, ADD ~Phobias~ Procrastination~ Communication Breakdown~ Exhaustion~ Physical Conditions

I work with individuals and present to Mother’s Groups
My Groups are being formed now in Suffolk County and Garden City, NY.
Call for a FREE CONSULT: 516 623 4353 www.balanceandpower.com

Groups for September forming NOW!

 

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DeStress Tips III by Eileen Lichtenstein, CEO www.balanceandpower.com 

~Want to discuss any of these, or need help,? Call me for a FREE PHONE CONSULT: 516 623 4353~

DeStress Tip: Honor your boundaries and say no~ ow.ly/xgBS5

DeStress Tip: Hold Hope ow.ly/xgBaV fb.me/346z3XGXc

DeStress Tip: Inner strength and being centered are keys to life and business success! ow.ly/xgCsZ fb.me/2d1K8H98k

DeStress Tip: Be fearless!~! ow.ly/xgBmd fb.me/31nXwCSsV

DeStress Tip: Disconnect from technology, from work related stuff for an hour, a half day, weekend, week… fb.me/6TIlRfRqR

DeStress Tip: Stop second guessing! ow.ly/xgAwD fb.me/2OBt465UV

DeStress Tip: See the whole chessboard when u play chess! ie: Don’t lose your temp[er on the road!~… fb.me/455zqB7Nu

DeStress Tip: “Develop an attitude of gratitude, and give thanks for everything that happens to you, knowing that… fb.me/2UDm0FAhQ

DeStress Tip: Get in front of a mirror and practice smiling. While working your grin, take a minute to… fb.me/3C1AWxonO

DeStress Tip: Stop negative self talk. Switch the thoughts of negativity to positive mantras, such as “I am a strong woman (man)!”

DeStress Tip: Write down five things that you are proud about and stick the list in your wallet to pull out to… fb.me/3h1nJWuiQ

DeStress Tip: Emotional eating-stress a vicious cycle. You have the power to stop it! ow.ly/xf4Pc fb.me/3sk80z8Oj

DeStress Tip: Listen well instead of reacting in anger. ow.ly/xf4uBfb.me/1b10oe99r

DeStress Tip: Be grateful always!! It’s more important ever on this day of rememberance- ow.ly/xf4Iv fb.me/35VD7TKcc

DeStress Tip: Make your Goals Realistic & Reachable! ow.ly/wXQAXfb.me/3tNCZ4vY1

DeStress Tip: Exercise! Ditching exercise for a more sedentary way of life can have an overall negative effect on… fb.me/3imdJ7YUT

DeStress Tip: Exercise and you will feel better about yourself and the more likely you are to live a healthy… fb.me/3tuGlB7S1

De-Stress Tip: Stop emotional eating! Feel confident, healthy & in control. 🙂ow.ly/wXPWj fb.me/18dYfHsOH

DeStress Tip: If you are able to take a step back and laugh at yourself and the absurdity of life every now and then, things won’t seem…

DeStress Tip: Regardless of the outcome, following through boosts confidence and reassures us that when all is… fb.me/3ILcRMkSn

DeStress Tip: We need the action/practice component for ultimate productivity powerful positive language to become a happy habit!…

DeStress Tip: Making and sticking to a decision is a source of happiness because it gives you a sense of control, of efficacy.

DeStress Tip: Laugh More!: A small child typically laughs more than four hundred times a day, and an adult-… fb.me/2SuM58kiI

DeStress Tip: Acting in an outgoing, talkative, adventurous or assertive way makes people- even introverts-feel… fb.me/3ShSe4ZAe

DeStress Tip: Happier people are more interested in social problems. They do more volunteer work and contribute. fb.me/1tKKZilEF

DeStress Tip: Did you know that the brain is stimulated by surprise?ow.ly/wHgMO fb.me/2BGHJEHj9

DeStress Tip:  8 Tips for Feeling Happier wp.me/poyvn-PN

DeStress Tip: Self-love is the one most important thing to create your best life. ow.ly/wHgyM fb.me/2nJvGczED

DeStress Tip: Focus is a skill you can develop. Do you know you can rewire negative patterns??
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DeStress Tip: 10 Tips to Stop Self-Sabotage fb.me/1iORMVSRd

DeStress Tip: Transition = Opportunities ow.ly/ws5oa

DeStress Tip: Perfectionism is the enemy of creativity and productivity. You don’t even have to be creating… fb.me/6LtLacATj

De-Stress Tip: “Progress always involves risk. You can’t steal second base and keep your foot on first.” – Bob… fb.me/6TjurOU0a

DeStress Tip: A great appreciation of nature and our connection to it enhances our spirit and helps to connect us… fb.me/3rBKOuWdn

DeStress Tip: Meditating can help develop the art of patience.

DeStress Tip: Patience means allowing things to unfold at their own speed rather than jumping in with your… fb.me/1bz1T3ZuL

DeStress Tip: Take time to access what you have in front of you, take a break and re-evaluate. ow.ly/wdrSX

DeStress Tip:  Stop Smoking with EFT! ow.ly/wdt0u

DeStress Tip: Studies show that expressing anger only aggravates it.

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