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Balance Spontaneity With Intuition

Posted in action, Uncategorized, tagged , , , on December 8, 2018| Leave a Comment »

Finding the balance of spontaneity with intuition helps us make choices that benefit our lives. Notice when you are feeling impulsive or spontaneous and then ask yourself, “Will this really benefit me?”  The answer comes in the form of a verbal response or simply an instinctual feeling. Try to pay attention to your feeling; that is your intuition guiding you to make the right choices. It is important to remember that making spontaneous decisions doesn’t necessarily mean being hasty. Acting with energy and spontaneity is a wonderful way to live our lives, as it means we are being in the moment. However, it can lead us to make decisions that may not be the best for us and may lead to stress, frustration, anger, anxiety, depression.  I know my that SOAR! with Resilience™ Book can help with these issues and challenges.

A must read for anyone struggling to take their personal or professional life to a higher level of success and satisfaction.
 A high level of energy may leave you feeling stimulated and not completely aware of the effects of the choices you make.  This may be a good time to work on balancing your spontaneity with intuition.Taking a moment or two to think about the effects of our choices, we are still acting on the spur-of-the-moment, but we also act using our intuition as a guide. This prevents us from making decisions we may later regret. We respect and pay attention to both our desire for the unstructured and our natural instincts.   Be attuned to your intuition! Balancing spontaneity with intuition is your best outcome. Need help with this?
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Want better Business Connections, Conversations and Collaborations? 

Posted in business coaching, executive coaching, collaboration, communication, Uncategorized, tagged , , on December 7, 2018| Leave a Comment »

Peers On Demand Group for C-Level Executives

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Want better Business Connections, Conversations and Collaborations?

Get results from an online Peer Group led by Rocky Romero and Eileen Lichtenstein, Peak Performance Success Life and Career Coach: Leadership & C-Level Executive Coaching

When: Tue Dec 11, 2018 11:00am to 12noon EST

Discover how a peer advisory group assists you in making better business decisions:

  • Guidance from experienced members
  • Real world perspectives
  • Proven solutions
  • Many years of combined peer business success

Participate at: Join in number: 850-296-1589, PIN: 65005

View Conference attendees: www.PeersOnDemand.info

There are four components, as you may know:

1. How do I (your business issue)…?

2. Open ended questions asked about actions taken.

3. Recommendations by the members.

4. Actions to take by you and general feedback.

This will bring additional clarity about your business to you and our participants.

More about Eileen Lichtenstein’s C-Level Executive Coaching

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Mindfulness in strategic thinking, leadership, and company culture.

Posted in company culture, focus, leadership coaching, leadership training, mindfulness, resilience, Uncategorized, wellbeing, tagged , , , , , on December 1, 2018| Leave a Comment »

Research provides evidence that mindfulness practice can transform our lives as individuals, impacting us both personally and professionally. The benefits of mindfulness practice can include:
  • Improved stress management skills
  • Improved cognitive function
  • Increased creativity
  • Improved decision-making
  • Increased focus
  • Improved health
  • Improved wellbeing and life satisfaction
  • Increased resilience
  • And more.
Become a more mindful leader, through the science, the practice and the integration of mindfulness into your work and life.  My c-level executive coaching and training includes this!  I see clients in my Uniondale, NY office, the internet and on site.
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DeStress Tips IV

Posted in anger management, stress management, stress management tips, stress reduction, Uncategorized, tagged , , on December 1, 2018| Leave a Comment »

  • DeStress Tip: Love yourself and make loving the primary expression of your life. http://ow.ly/GfJ0B 
  • DeStress Tip: Listen to Moving Meditation® Fitness: These are two sections of an audio program that I produced in… http://fb.me/1UzqaDvjh 
  • DeStress Tip: When you feel stress or anxiety try to replicate a time when you felt calm. http://ow.ly/GfIm9 
  • DeStress Tip: Be OK with “changing things up”. http://ow.ly/G1cOy 
  • DeStress Tips: Take one thing at a time; multitasking usually backfires. http://ow.ly/G1aZy 
  • DeStress Tip: Claim your power in the midst of chaos and movement by carrying your stillness with you… http://ow.ly/G192x 
  • DeStress Tip: ”Time is not a line, but a series of now points.” -Taisen Deshimaru http://ow.ly/G19XB 
  • DeStress Tip: If you have “an inkling of a feeling”, take a moment, recognize and trust it and move forward on it. http://ow.ly/G0Thr 
  • DeStress Tip: Creative expression can give a person almost everything that he or she has been searching for: enlivenment, peace, meaning…
  • DeStress Tip: Forgiveness can be a strong antidote to anger. http://ow.ly/FSk6E 
  • DeStress Tip: Confidence + Focus = Action! http://ow.ly/Fvl97 
  • DeStress Tip: Get the “fear factor” figured out. http://ow.ly/Fvk3r 
  • DeStress Tip: Review and re-prioritize your goals frequently. http://ow.ly/Fvj6G 
  • DeStress Tip: Examine the moments when you resist what is happening. http://ow.ly/FviLx 
  • DeStress Tip: Use “The Power of Visualization to Reduce Stress & Achieve Your Goals” Delete https://lnkd.in/d92V5KD 
  • DeStress Tip: Create abundance by allowing it in- and letting go of resistance.
  • DeStress Tip: Transform procrastination NOW!
  • DeStress Tip: Visualize positive outcomes and TAP (EFT) everyday to overcome Holiday Stress- Anxiety. http://www.balanceandpower.com/eft.php 
  • DeStress Tip: 5 Ways You Can Be Happier & INSPIRATIONAL QUOTES http://ow.ly/F3xxg 
  • DeStress Tip: Believe in the power of animal therapy – lots of smiles 🙂http://fb.me/2rpzV7z1V 
  • DeStress Tip: Meditating can help develop the art of patience. http://ow.ly/F3vRl 
  • DeStress Tip: Examine the moments when you resist what is happening. http://ow.ly/FviLx 
  • DeStress Tip: “Progress always involves risk. You can’t steal second base and keep your foot on first.” – Bob Proctor
  • DeStress Tip: When someone is pressing your buttons in conversation, leave if possible and respond more calmly… http://fb.me/3AbOgUYaF 
  • DeStress Tip: See the whole chessboard when u play chess! ie: Don’t lose your temp[er on the road!~… http://fb.me/455zqB7Nu 
  • DeStress Tip: Stop negative self talk. Switch the thoughts of negativity to positive mantras, such as “I am a strong woman (man)!”…
  • DeStress Tip: “Adopt the pace of nature. Her secret is patience.”- Ralph Waldo Emerson http://ow.ly/ETuTz 
  • DeStress Tip: Tapping (EFT) mediates the stress response, calming the amygdala and helping the body relax and heal. http://ow.ly/EKHDY 
  • DeStress Tip: Inner strength and being centered are keys to life and business success! http://ow.ly/EKHZc 
  • DeStress Tip: Let go, release fear and negativity, anxiety. http://ow.ly/EKyk6  http://fb.me/1uvyKyTk6 
  • DeStress Tip: Be grateful! Most cannot be depressed in the same moment as feeling grateful. http://ow.ly/EJf4A 
  • DeStress Tip: If you or a loved one is feeling “overwhelmed” and is “symptomatic” then get help! http://ow.ly/DmqNV 
  • DeStress Tip: Expressing anger often aggravates it. http://ow.ly/DmqGj 
  • DeStress Tip: Create positive visualizations for SMART goals: specific, measurable, attainable,realistic, timely.
  • DeStress Tip: Internal traffic control: check in with yourself and stretch and or do relaxation breathing. http://ow.ly/DmqoK 
  • DeStress Tip: Take “grateful walks” in nature, noticing all the wonders. Create a grateful mantra; repeat as you walk-breathe: inhale…
  • DeStress Tip: Will it matter ten years from now? If not, let it go. http://ow.ly/DmpO3 
  • DeStress Tip: Not all stress is bad for you. http://ow.ly/DmpEJ 
  • DeStress Tip: Release perfectionism. Collaborate (e.g., boss, friends, family) to get different perspective. http://ow.ly/Dmpec 
  • DeStress Tip: Spending more income on others = happier than people who spend more on themselves. http://ow.ly/DmoUN 
  • DeStress Tip: Say NO without guilt. http://ow.ly/DmoHc 
  • DeStress Tip: Gratitude is a necessary component of happiness. http://ow.ly/DmorW 
  • DeStress Tip: Face time with a friend and if possible a happy person- it’s contagious!
  • DeStress Tip: Trusting yourself, trusting your intuition paves the way for a life of fearlessness and success. http://ow.ly/DmodX 
  • DeStress Tip: Snack healthy if you’re hungry- don’t let low blood sugar make you crabby. http://ow.ly/d/2Eeq 
  • DeStress Tip: SMILE! and act “as if”. http://ow.ly/i/7lZ6a 
  • DeStress Tip: Say no as necessary. http://ow.ly/GfJy4 
  • DeStress Tip: Render acts of kindness to strangers.
  • DeStress Tip: When possible, be around children and pets :). http://ow.ly/i/7lZ2i 
  • DeStress Tip: Listen to music, an instant mood – dopamine booster!
  • DeStress Tip: Take time outside- even on a cold or dreary day fresh air is a mood booster. http://ow.ly/DmmCa 
  • DeStress Tip: Take a catnap. A nap can be an incredible mood booster. http://ow.ly/Dmmps 
  • DeStress Tip: EFT shines among all the Anger Management Techniques available to the public http://ow.ly/Dmm08 
  • DeStress Tip: Learn about bullying and bullies. http://ow.ly/DmlKV 
  • DeStress Tip: Learn to actively listen…sometimes people just need to talk their feelings out. http://ow.ly/CPENq 
  • DeStress Tip: Learn to actively listen…sometimes people just need to talk their feelings out. http://ow.ly/CPENq 
  • DeStress Tip: Ya know, some things on your list probably can be tossed if time is an issue. http://ow.ly/DmkIf  http://fb.me/73kRsFdfK 
  • DeStress Tip: Agree to disagree. Everyone has a right to their own opinion. http://ow.ly/CPEpW 
  • DeStress Tip: Take charge of procrastination with EFT. http://ow.ly/Dmkh3 
  • De-Stress Tip: Decompress, relax & recharge short breaks throughout the day. Do not allow stress to accumulate. http://ow.ly/CPE8Y 
  • DeStress Tip: Allow extra time for each transition. http://ow.ly/CPDuS 
  • DeStress Tip: Mindfulness is popular again- a good thing! http://ow.ly/CPBpR 
  • DeStress Tip: Stop second guessing… http://ow.ly/CiSf9 
  • DeStress Tip: Simplify: too many options can diminish your pleasure. http://ow.ly/CiRb0  http://ow.ly/i/77kBR  http://ow.ly/i/77kCx 
  • DeStress Tip: Spend time with your loved ones and friends. http://ow.ly/CPDjJ 
  • DeStress Tip: Anger and communication issues are highly affected by stress levels. http://ow.ly/CPBXw   Costa Rica 2009 012

Wishing you PEACE & ALL ENCOMPASSING ABUNDANCE

FREE consult: 516 623 4353   www.balanceandpower.com 

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Do You Have Enough Fun?

Posted in empowerment, fun, inner child, play, positive energy, self- care, self-help, stress, stress management tips, stress resilience, Uncategorized, tagged , , on November 26, 2018| Leave a Comment »

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Do you have enough fun and play?

I’m not talking about electronic games- or sex.  When you play tennis, golf, scrabble, bike, walk, ball, surf are you having fun?  In “the zone”? Are you smiling and laughing along with laser focus or perhaps no thoughts at all?

Give yourself permission to have fun.  It’s healthy, and well, yeah, fun!

Access your inner child and see what happens!   Being happier is always an asset.

Do you know what frees you?  It’s dancing for me.  I’ve come to peace with physical modifications for myself in dancing and exercising.   Additionally, I’ve placed the concept of “dancing” into an intellectual-emotional realm of possibility: creativity for the soul. I encourage you to take time to pursue your fun passion and create new possibilities.

There is no such thing as having “life balance”  all the time.  There are, however, individual tolerations if the balance is tipped too far.

Be smart- stay in balance most of the time!  This will keep you healthy and less stressed.

If you are experiencing stress, frustration or insecurity due to challenges you are currently facing, contact me for a complimentary consult/strategy session:

516 623 4353            www.balanceandpower.com 

Here are some quick and easy suggestions to reduce stress right now:

  • Pay attention to your body, feelings, thoughts and intuitive self
  • Acknowledge personal stress cues and symptoms
  • Recognize your tolerance
  • Pause! Breathe! Detach! Relax! Take a mini-vacation! 
  • Change your internal environment
  • Connect with Nature
  • Physically release and focus: dance, walk, yoga, work-out, etc. 
  • Conduct internal “traffic control” several times a day
  • Meditate and center yourself
  • Embrace your personal power and spiritual connection

 

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Shifting the Flow to Find Joy

Posted in attitude, EFT, eft coach, EFT training, EFTTapping, Emotional Freedom Techniques, positive attitude, procrastination, tapping, transformation, Uncategorized, tagged , , , , , , , on November 24, 2018| Leave a Comment »

We can  find joy in the chores and tasks we don’t especially like – sometimes all we need is a change of attitude, a different approach, a little music, or some help from friends or family, and the tasks or responsibilities that we perceive as tedious ie: washing dishes, fixing the car, cleaning a closet, can become a source of satisfaction.

Most of us tend to put off what it is that we don’t want to do. Yet, one of the best approaches to an unpleasant task or dull chore is to dive right in and be fully mindful of what it is that you are doing.

Playing your favorite music, dancing while you work, or creating a mental list of everything you are grateful for are just a few ways to turn an unexciting activity into a fun event. Look for joy in doing your mundane activities, and they’ll become a source of enjoyment rather than a tolerable duty.
Need help in getting started? If you are procrastinating, it is based on one or more of the fears below.   EFTtapping can help light the fire and transform procrastination into action!
~fear of failure
~fear of being judged
~fear of success
~fear of being controlled
Need help? Call 516 623 4353   Sessions in Uniondale, NY., Skype and onsite.
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Is your anger working?

Posted in anger, anger coach, anger management, anger management specialist, attitude, EFTTapping, Emotional Freedom Techniques, self esteem, shame, Uncategorized, tagged , , , on November 18, 2018| Leave a Comment »

Anger is a natural human emotion.  “Is my anger working for me?” is a question you can ask yourself.  When anger is mild and infrequent,  is expressed assertively (directly to the problem person, in a non-accusatory manner) and without aggression, and the individual is able to “let it go” quickly, then anger may serve the role of simply highlighting your annoyance and it can lead to problem resolution.

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However, if your anger is moderate to intense, experienced frequently, endures to the point where you are holding a grudge and are planning to get even, and is expressed in aggressive verbal and physical actions, then there is cause for alarm. You are likely at risk for the negative relationship, health and sometimes legal repercussions related to inappropriate anger expression.  Professional help is indicated.

A by-product of an unacceptably angry person is low self-esteem and often shame.
Anger management programs work to address managing anger as well as building self-confidence.  Recently there have been six large-scale analyses of adult anger management programs that show this!  If you,  a loved one or colleague has a serious anger problem and wishes to gain control over the emotion, I invite you Contact me for a 15-minute consult: 516 623 4353   www.balanceandpower.com 

My sessions are in Uniondale, NY, Skype and on your site.

I am a Certified Anger Management Specialist by NAMA (National Anger Management Association), life-career coach and EFT practitioner.

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