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The Powerful Spirit of Compromise & Flexibility

Compromise can be within yourself – adapting to circumstance, perhaps lowering expectations and being more flexible- within yourself- which will positively affect your mood and subsequently better your attitude and communications with others. It’s truly a flow effect and good funnel!

Realizing things may not go according to plan or time is different is the first step. Being in the moment and mindful of your emotions as well as circumstances is always helpful in problem solving and challenges.

The Resilience Factor

Resilience defined in Webster’s New World Dictionary © 1982:
1. “springing back into shape, position, etc. after being stretched, bent or compressed.”
2. “recovering strength, spirits, etc. quickly.”

Being resilient in body, mind and spirit is key to being happy and successful in all areas of life. Emotionally, it’s the opposite of being “stuck in a rut” and it’s about being positive. Physically, it can translate to strength and flexibility. Spiritually it can indicate faith with the ability to maintain hope in tumultuous times. It’s about staying centered and grounded and making “right” choices.

So, you may be asking yourself, how does one maintain emotional-spiritual equilibrium and resiliency when things can be unpredictable and often in crisis mode? It’s not easy, and takes some work. It’s easy to create positive patterns and habits when life is going smoothly. It can be quite challenging while being swept away by negative forces. A good mentor/coach and practice is important, and the practice will create a “spill-over” effect into life situations.

Many people, including myself, have learned how to be more resilient.

There are skill sets of meditation, relaxation breathing, visualization and “tapping” that all add into helping an individual maintain focus and be positive. Exercising, eating healthfully and having healthy relationships are naturally fortifying. Most people are not born resilient, but do have the capacity to learn how to be this way You are the only one who can control your attitude. By focusing on what is strong and enduring and seeing your potential, you can take calculated risks and overcome challenges. It takes an open, creative mind free from anxiety to pick up on opportunities.

I know my that my book SOAR! with Resilience®: The Interactive Book for Overcoming Obstacles & Achieving Success” can help with these issues and challenges. A must read for anyone struggling to take their personal or professional life to a higher level of success and satisfaction.

They are out there ready to be accessed by your positive and resilient radar.

You are the only one who can control your attitude.

By focusing on what is strong and enduring and seeing your potential, you can take calculated risks and overcome challenges.

It takes an open, creative mind free from anxiety to pick up on opportunities. They are out there ready to be accessed by your positive and resilient radar. Being resilient in body, mind and spirit is key to being happy and successful in all areas of life. Emotionally, it’s the opposite of being “stuck in a rut” and it’s about being positive. Physically, it can translate to strength and flexibility. Spiritually it can indicate faith with the ability to maintain hope in tumultuous times. It’s about staying centered and grounded and making “right” choices.

You may call me for a 20 minute FREE PHONE CONSULT: 516.623.4353


From Heidi Klewicki, East Meadow NY
Assistant Director at a Not For Profit
Married. Mom of two.

I needed help with the communication in our home. I was told I appeared unhappy, miserable or angry. While I didn’t see myself as such I agreed I could be happier. I felt betrayed by my family and decided to seek help.

I was referred to Eileen Lichtenstein by someone that knew one of Eileen’s specialties is Anger Management. I attended six one hour sessions between November and December. Each session included a combination of conversation, workbook exercises, tapping and guided meditation. Most of our time focused on what I could change.

Ultimately, I made a commitment to myself to remain in control of my words and actions, especially in a crisis. My family has expressed their gratitude in my seeking help and following up on strategies to help me.

I use exercise, meditation, yoga and tapping now to retrain my thoughts. My progress afforded me an enjoyable holiday season and birthday. The stress in our home continues but I can remain calm and focused on solutions.

Eileen is approachable, easy to speak with and well informed. She gave me the tools and reassurance I needed to succeed. I recommend Eileen for Anger Management, Career Development and being the most productive and content you can be.

– Sent with gratitude, Heidi Klewicki

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If you are experiencing stress, frustration or insecurity due to challenges you are currently facing, contact me for a complimentary consult/strategy session: 516.623.4353 www.balanceandpower.com

C-Level Executive Coaching


Eileen Lichtenstein helps you be effective, fulfilled and balanced in your work.

Eileen’s C-Level Leadership & Executive Coaching programs are designed to bring about greater personal effectiveness, well-being and happiness, while positively impacting the performance of the organization.

Eileen’s programs can help provide clarity and insight to leaders and their teams, particularly those are facing challenges in:

  • performance and effectiveness
  • creativity and energy
  • job satisfaction, balance and stress-reduction
  • overcoming obstacles
Eileen Lichtenstein’s C-Level Leadership & Executive Coaching can maximize effectiveness, creativity and resilience.

With Eileen’s C-Level executive leadership coaching, client and coach work together to bring fresh perspectives to work and life.

Eileen works with each organization to provide programs that best suits their priorities and goals, all designed for personal and organizational enrichment and excellence.

C-Level Executive Coaching: 3 Packages Available

Sessions held in Uniondale office, on your site in NY metro area or via Skype
Contact Eileen today for a Free 15 minute Consultation.

More Information on C-Level Executive Coaching Packages

Balance & Power Uniondale, NY location

RXR Plaza: 405 RXR Plaza, Uniondale, NY 11556

Driving routes: Meadowbrook Pkway 24 West
Franklin Ave to Hempstead Turnpike East

Public Transport: LIRR to Mineola Station
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Balance & Power Events:

Interactive Seminar: Lynbrook Septa (Special Ed PTA)


Eileen Lichtenstein will be a speaking at the district PTA meeting at the Lynbrook Kindergarten Center.

The goal of Eileen’s Stress Management presentation is to provide an understanding of the role stress plays in our lives, including recent studies of the impact of chronic stress on physical, emotional and mental states, and to provide experiences of different relaxation techniques that can be used in the daily lives of the participants. Learn how lifestyles and stress levels can be changed with impressive results! Find out More about Stress Management

When: Wed Feb 6th: 7:15pm
Location: Lynbrook Kindergarten Center
111 Atlantic Ave, Lynbrook, NY 11563

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Roll Into the New Year with Productivity in Mind:
Eileen Lichtenstein in Long Island Business News


Post holidays offer an opportunity to bring new energy at work while kicking off 2019. Goals and objectives have been set and, with some thought into productivity, you and your team can make fresh strides. Read More Here

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EFT & Mindfulness to Increase Focus and Manage Anger & Stress
Choose Positive Living with Sara Troy and her guest Eileen Lichtenstein, on air from January 22nd. Reduce Stress and Be Happier, More Productive with EFT Tapping and Anger Management Strategies. Listen Here

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How to Create Optimal Happiness & Productivity
A transformative journey of self-development that will guide you to amazing levels of happiness and abundance in your life. You will learn about components of happiness and productivity and how to apply it to your own circumstances. You will learn how to implement and adapt the strategies to your own life on an ongoing basis.

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SOAR! with Resilience®: The Interactive Book for Overcoming Obstacles & Achieving Success” by Eileen Lichtenstein

Available as eBook or Hard Copy

This powerful interactive book will change your life! At last there is a book that interactively takes you through all the components of success. Eileen Lichtenstein waves a wand of magic with this inspirational book & it will leave you spell bound!

A must read for anyone struggling to take their personal or professional life to a higher level of success and satisfaction. Eileen has created a book where she is “your” business, life, parenting or transition coach – partner! Eileen takes you through her personal journey of accomplishment while showing how you too can achieve the same peace and balance she has achieved in her own life.

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New Course at MMU: How To SOAR Your Way To Entrepreneurial Success with Eileen Lichtenstein

Join Eileen’s New Course at Master Mind University!

“It is only through gratitude that life becomes rich.” -Dietrich Bonhoeffer

Learn how to become a better you and Call MMU:
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Department of Education: Master Mind Coaching (MMCO)
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Attendee: You are an entrepreneur who wants to learn how to manage and reduce your stress, anxiety and anger symptoms to improve the quality of your relationships and communication, understand communication styles and resolve conflicts effectively, increase self-esteem and self-confidence balance work and homelife and prioritize your thoughts in a positive way.
Location: New York

Eileen’s Instructor Certifications and Degrees: MS Education, Certified Anger Management Specialist and EFT Practitioner

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Eileen is a regular contributor to these publications:

Real Talk Magazine


The Huffington Post


Being resilient in body, mind and spirit is key to being happy and successful in all areas of life. The Balance & Power Blog

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Eileen Lichtenstein
CEO, Balance & Power, Inc

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These tips are tried and true! :

1.  Listen to and follow your intuition.

During these trying and difficult times it’s been shown that it’s often necessary to reprioritize to get best outcomes.   Your intuition is most often correct when it comes to your life, work and relationships.  So even if it’s an inkling feeling – a tiny revelation- take a moment to recognize that and then move forward.

2.  Stay within your integrity- no matter what.

No reason or person is important enough to ever stray.  If you have  tried this over the years, whether intentionally or not, then you know it always backfires.

 3.  Love and laugh!

Both are proven stress reducers.  Happiness is contagious – many need more of that now while surrounded by global negativity, difficult times, chaos and immersed in “the new normal”.

 4.  Forgive yourself  for mistakes; let go and move on. 

Self-forgiveness is essential in order to forgive anyone else.  Forgiveness is essential to let go of anger.  Letting go of anger is essential to be happier.  Especially in “the new normal” this is a no-brainer :).

5.  Take time each day  to relax, to dream.

We need our “down” time more than ever now, living in these difficult times.  Honor your method of relaxation and allow dreams to surface.  Be open to learning additional relaxation techniques and give them a try.. whatever works for you whenever you do it is OK as long as it has no negative effects on health or  overlaps with personal or work responsibilities.  If things are unmanageable – get help.

 6.  Be a great listener.

Listening is the most important part of communication.  If you do not understand what is being said, ask. Listen well and your response will  be more on target.

7.  Stay healthy by practicing extreme self-care. (diet, sleep, exercise, relaxation techniques).

Stress takes its toll on health and may exacerbate conditions already in existence.  Therefore we need to be more diligent in this realm in order to   “Thrive Amidst Chaos” (the title of a workshop I co-presented with two colleagues recently).

8.  Stop procrastinating and take action- move forward or drop the project.

We all procrastinate; acknowledgment of being in this mode is the first step in moving forward.  All procrastination is fear based and manifests itself through negative statements such as:

“not the right time now”
“why even bother…can happen (worst case scenario).”
Sometimes the act of “non-doing” is an indication that the idea needs to be tossed.

 What holds us back from accomplishing our goals is fear.

  • Fear of failure
  • Fear of being judged
  • Fear of success
  • Fear of being controlled

These fears are often caused by deeply routed anxieties.  No matter- you can turn it all around with EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques: Meridian Tapping) combined with positive language-visualization reframing and Peak Performance Success Coaching and the intention to do just that!

The following are a few common phrases/excuses people use when they are procrastinating: The task is:
“too boring”
“too time consuming”
“I just don’t feel like it”
“I just don’t want to”.

The Good news is that   EFT ( The Emotional Freedom Technique) is wonderfully successful in reversing procrastination, as usually deeper emotional issues are involved.  It is based on the simple statement that the cause of all negative emotions is a disruption in the body’s energy system . It involves tapping on meridian points while making statements about the issue.

Knowing that you are afraid will not magically remove fear or change behavior.  You can use The EFT Technique to eradicate the roadblocks of guilt and fear that keep you from moving forward. When you use EFT and stimulate the acupressure points (see chart) the level of serotonin in the brain rises and floods the amygdalia, the section of the brain involved with controlling emotion and fear, and the fear loop is disconnected.  Once the brain stops experiencing fear with the proper EFT tapping, set-up phrase (see below examples) and intuitive NLP language guidance from an experienced EFT Practitioner, which I am, you will find that your thoughts and behaviors transform effortlessly.

9.  Begin each day with a short meditation positive visualizations of successful outcomes of your goals.

Oh! I am so much a believer in this!  Research has shown fantastic results.  It’s all up to you – and your connection to a higher power/the universe.

10.  Believe in yourself and your goals; create affirmations and post them onto mirrors, in an accessible notebook and in the car.

I’ve witnessed amazing escalation in self-esteem, happiness, productivity and success with the implementation of these tips for my clients.

SOAR! with Resilience(R)   is the interactive manual that stands alone and also accompanies customized individual and group coaching and training programs that encompass the material presented in this article.

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Stop Worrying!  Did you know that:

  • 40% of worrying is over things that will never happen
  • 30% of worrying is over things that can’t be changed
  • 10% of worrying is over health (which only gets worse if you worry!)
  • 8%  of worrying is over legitimate concerns (worry!)
  • We spend over 92% of our time and energy worrying about things that:
  1. We have no control over
  2. We can’t possibly change
  3. Have misperceived

What would happen if we channeled this energy and effort constructively rather than “adding fuel to the fire”?   Worry is like stepping on the gas pedal while the car is in neutral:  we create a lot of noise, use up energy and don’t get anywhere!

Make a list of things you worry about.  Divide your list into categories listed at the top of this outline.  How do you want to redirect your focus?

“An unexamined life is not worth living.”  – Socrates

Symptoms of Inner Peace :   Place a smile on your face ( a stress reducer)!-(author unknown)

  • A tendency to think and act spontaneously rather than on fears based on past experiences
  • An unmistakable ability to enjoy each moment
  • A loss of interest in judging other people
  • A loss of interest in conflict
  • A loss of the ability to worry. (This is a very serious symptom.)
  • Frequent, overwhelming episodes of appreciation
  • Contented feelings of connectedness with others and with nature.
  • Frequent attacks of smiling.
  • An increasing tendency to let things happen rather than make them happen.
  • An increased susceptibility to the love extended by others as well as the uncontrollable urge to extend it.

It’s a process, now go forth and practice!

“Change the way you look at things and the things you look at will change.” – Dr. Wayne W. Dyer

~above excerpts from Chapter 3: 

“SOAR! with Resilience® The Interactive Book for
Overcoming Obstacles & Achieving Success”

By Eileen Lichtenstein

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Life-Work Integration for Optimal Happiness & Productivity

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Long Island Breakfast Club Welcomes you with Philotimo!
Our motto: “Philotimo! Experience impacts the world beyond imagination.”

Philotimo: An array of virtues that encompasses honor, dignity and pride, the ideal actions and behaviors, hospitality, bonds, and responsibilities between each other.

Come join us for High Energy Return of Philotimo. As a community we can make this happen on Long Island! We can work together to make the world a better place. LIBC’s goal is to assist with providing referrals, companionship, business networking, contacts for interviewing and mentors for each individual’s success. A self described socialpreneur network promoting workforce development for midlife professionals.

When: Saturday Jan 12, 2019 9:00am
Location:  OLINDA’S CAFÉ. 221 HEMPSTEAD TURNPIKE, W.HEMPSTEAD, NY  Parking on HEMPSTEAD Tpke or PARKING IN REAR
Speaker:  Life-Work Integration for Optimal Happiness & Productivity: Eileen Lichtenstein, MS. Ed. CEO, Balance & Power, Inc.   Author of SOAR! with Resilience: The Interactive Book for Overcoming Obstacles & Achieving Success”. Eileen specializes in personal development and C-Level Executive Coaching and Training, including stress and anger reduction management, life, parenting career coaching, effective communication and career challenges.

RSVP Required: www.longislandbreakfastclub.org
Questions: vjanek@optonline.net

Since its founding in 2006, the Long Island Breakfast Club has provided career counseling, support and advocacy for experienced, in-transition professionals on Long Island.

Register for the Event   We Meet, We Eat, We Seek, Re-invent, And Promote Philotimo. Socialpreneurship is a new valued addition. Meet new businesses to collaborate with and pass the karma & referrals. www.longislandbreakfastclub.org | Facebook Group

More about Eileen Lichtenstein’s C-Level Executive Coaching

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I help people break through fear and perceived difficulties with EFT Emotional Freedom Techniques, tapping, via Skype and my Uniondale,NY office. Consult: 516 623 4353 .  My September newsletter https://mailchi.mp/1cfdc621f651/4l1mr1ph6w-2854525 

Emotions that linger unaddressed or suppressed become baggage and prevents us from fulfilling our potentials. Putting aside your fears in order to confront your emotions ensures that your feelings will not interfere with your serenity or have a long-term effect on your happiness. You’ll feel refreshed and recharged when you bravely examine your emotions.

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EVENT!!!  3/21 NYC 1-2:30

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Empowering Women in Business
Connect. Collaborate. Contribute.

Gone are the days of going it alone!
Come create referral and collaboration partnerships.
Together let’s create a better world.

Business and Personal Development presentations with a facilitated interactive ThinkTank segment for inspiration, motivation and support. Come connect at a deeper level,
make friends, find opportunities, share your experience and enjoy like minded people!

When: Wed. March 21, 2018 1:00pm to 2:30pm

Cost: $40.00

Location: One Park Avenue
(Btw 32nd and 33rd Streets), Meeting Room, NYC (Oasis Day Spa)
[Gorgeous new location and enhanced format -Previously known as Emma Viglucci’s Successful Connections Networking Lunch]

Less Stress, Optimal Happiness & Productivity using EFT and Mindfulness

    • Release stress and resolve issues!

 

    • Build confidence!

 

    • Overcome fears!

 

    • Tap on your own challenges and the other participants’ for great results!

 

    • Reduce stress and transform procrastination into action!

 

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Please determine which available date works best for you.
Saturday, May 20  Time: 9am – 12pm
Saturday, June 24  Time: 9am – 12pm
Saturday, July 15  Time: 9am – 12pm
Saturday, August 12  Time: 9am – 12pm

3 Hour Anger Management Completion Certificates accepted by the courts will be given if requested. Advance Registration only.

Location: 433 Maple Avenue, Westbury, New York 11590

Cost: $150 [Small groups, Limited seating ]

Register with Paypal eileen@balanceandpower.com  Credit Cards accepted via telephone.

  • Enhance all aspects of stress and anger management
  • Communicate more effectively
  • Be happier

Explore strategies to release anger, reduce stress and deal effectively with others. Anger and communication issues are highly affected by stress levels.

The best predictor of a positive outcome is your willingness to honestly examine and admit the consequences of your problem and actions and have the intention to change patterns. Your anger and stress impact your relationships, health, work life and financial situation.

Questions? Contact Eileen Now for a Complimentary Telephone Consult
516 623 4353  eileen@balanceandpower.com

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