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Affirmations to Release Shame – Fear – Negativity – Stress – Anger and to EMPOWER

I see life as a process ever unfolding
I release my fear and resistance to change as appropriate
I release and forgive everyone who didn’t support my changes
I release and heal all the changes that caused me pain
I forgive myself for making changes that didn’t work
I forgive myself for not making changes that would have worked
I dissolve all past agreements that no longer serve me
I create new agreements that serve my new directions
I release all distress and worry
I release all negative thoughts and feelings
I release all fear and anxiety
I release all stress and tension
I am flexible and easygoing
I am in a state of ease and flow
I am relaxed and calm
I am serene and peaceful

I control my responses to stressful situations

I dissolve negative responses to stressful situations
I respond to stressful situations in healthy and healing ways
I replace stress with calming thoughts
I replace stress with peaceful feelings
I replace stress with healthy habits
I am at peace whether or not I am in control
I am tranquil whether or not I know the future
I am calm whether or not things are going my way
I face every situation clear, free and unafraid
I am now willing to move beyond my past
I release and forgive who I have been in the past
I release and forgive each person for who they have been in my past
I grieve for my past as appropriate
I am safe and protected when I acknowledge all things in my life
I process my anger in healthy and healing ways
I release my depression quickly in grace
I move to acceptance in powerful new ways
I release my past and live in my present
I release and forgive everyone who created chaos in my life
I forgive myself for creating chaos
I have faith in my future and  myself
I move boldly forward with complete trust and faith
I dissolve all blocks to communicating clearly
I speak up for myself at the right times about the right things
I release and forgive everyone who put me down when I spoke up
I increase in assertiveness daily
I say what I mean and I mean what I say

I dissolve my aggressive characteristics as appropriate
I increase in effective listening daily
I am open and honest about my feelings and express them well
I recognize and acknowledge when I am feeling anger
I dissolve all confusion around what I want and need
I am honest about what I want and need and I ask for it simply and clearly
I forgive everyone  (to some extent if not completely) who didn’t meet my needs
I take responsibility for my own needs
I make meaningful agreements and I keep them
I set appropriate limits and boundaries and I keep them
I put my needs first as appropriate
I ask for what I want and need simply and clearly
I balance my needs with the needs of others in perfect ways
I make meaningful agreements and I keep them
I accept myself completely without qualifiers
I have a solid sense of self-identity
I find deep inner peace with myself as I am
All my false images of myself from the past are dissolved
I love and accept all parts of myself
I love and accept all of my thoughts and feelings
I have positive self-esteem apart from others thoughts and criticisms
I love and approve myself without pleasing others
I accept, honor and value myself completely as I am, though I recognize areas for improvement.

I maintain my self-confidence in all times and places

I forgive myself for any and all past mistakes
I dissolve all fear around making mistakes
My self-confidence is in who I am not what I do
I move forward, feeling self-confidence every step of the way
I open my heart to allow love in at all times
I reclaim my childlike ability to love without fear
I dissolve all guard and shields I have around my heart
I surround myself with people with open, loving hearts
I accept myself completely as an imperfect person
I recognize criticism for what it is and I acknowledge it
Being criticized and feeling attacked and inadequate are separate for me now
I am assertive and clear when I handle criticism
I remain calm, centered and balanced while I handle criticism

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Affirmations have been shown to improve education, health and relationship outcomes, with benefits that sometimes persist for months and years. Here are some I’ve created; what are yours?

Empowering Affirmations

I am passionate about my goals.

My passion drives me forward to live the life of my dreams.

I know what I want in life and I set goals to get me there. I know that each goal I achieve brings me in union with what I desire.

Meeting a goal, no matter how big or small, strengthens my confidence and self-esteem.

Setting and achieving goals is a never-ending circle of positivity that fuels my passion even more.

My passion enables my success. I use tools to ignite and refuel my passion on a daily basis, even when I face challenges that try to smother it.

My tools include affirmations to transform negative thoughts into positive ones, meditation to relax and rejuvenate my energy, and notes and pictures to inspire and remind me of my goals.

Today, I choose to feel inspired by my passions and let the excitement propel me forward to achieve my goals, regardless of any challenges that may arise

People notice their anger levels lowering when feelings of empowerment and self esteem rise.   It feels great knowing you are “in charge” of your response; the opposite of feeling “overwhelmed” or highly stressed, which contributes to high levels of frustration and can easily lead to anger. Anger is a natural human emotion – we all get angry- and that’s okay- it’s about coping with it before it becomes inappropriate. Learning to how to be more flexible in how we deal with the frustrations and stresses of our lives has many advantages. Stress and anger are not good to our immune system and can cause conditions and disease. Effective relationships are based on good communication without inappropriate anger coming through; a feeling of empowerment from the communicator is necessary for that to occur.

We’ve all heard people say “My friends tell me I am just too hard on myself”, ”I’m such a loser”, or “I’m so stupid to make these mistakes.” This negative self-talk can and needs to be turned around to eradicate feelings of shame, which may stem from childhood- perhaps a parent, teacher or peers saying these negative statements. An important tool in dealing with angry feelings and growing feelings of empowerment is that of eliminating that negative conversation with yourself. An alternate response when someone “puts you down” is not to take it personally – difficult to do and very attainable. It takes conscious effort and practice. Don Miguel Ruiz discusses this strategy in his self-help book “The Four Agreements”.
Holding a grudge, against another or yourself, is letting the offender (or your “dark side”) live rent free in your head. Making the decision to “let go” (while still creating a protective shield/filter for ourselves) is often a process of forgiveness—or at least acceptance—and is a major step toward anger control, increased self-esteem and empowerment.

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Here’s what brain research says will make you happy:

  • “What am I grateful for?” Just asking -searching helps; you don’t need answers!
  • Label -name negative emotions. Your brain isn’t so bothered  when you name it.
  • Decide. No perfectionist thinking – good enough usually is!
  • Hugs, hugs, hugs.  Research shows getting five hugs a day for four weeks increases happiness big time.

Everything is interconnected:

  • Gratitude improves sleep.
  • Sleep reduces pain.
  • Reduced pain improves your mood.
  • Improved mood reduces anxiety.
  • Reduced anxiety improves focus and planning.
  • Focus and planning help with decision making.
  • Decision making further reduces anxiety and improves enjoyment.
  • Enjoyment gives you more to be grateful for!
  • Enjoyment also makes it more likely you’ll exercise and be social, which, in turn, will make you happier.

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Bullying rates remain higher for children with disabilities, even as they mature.  

Studies point out the necessity for special education programs to teach appropriate response skills to children with disabilities.  I facilitate workshops and trainings for children, families, educators and parents with this topic as well as bullying prevention and anger management

Training Programs & Groups for Adults, Staff Development and ages 12-18 on site and my Westbury, NY office forming now for 2017

    • Anger Management and Stress Release
    • Conflict Resolution and Anger Management: Understanding that bullies usually have low self-esteem and how it is best not to give up our power to these people.
    • Sensitivity Training/Character Education: Curriculum for Teaching Respect, Ethics And Tolerance. Promoting the understanding that self-esteem is not just about feeling good, but more importantly, it is about doing the right thing.
    • Effective Communication: Learn about different styles of communication, and how to be a good communicator. Take the frustration out of communication!

 


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Bullying and cyber-bullying can leave anyone feeling hurt, angry, depressed or overwhelmed. Bullying is an aggressive behavior that can be physical, verbal, or relational. Learn about why some kids bully and why others are bullied, and how to develop the resilience and self-confidence to succeed in life.

The most damaging aspect of bullying is its repetition. Bullies are often relentless, bullying over and over again for long periods of time. Cyber-bullying can be even more painful because it can be witnessed by many more people and continue around the clock.

    • Bullying/Cyber-Bullying Prevention Support Groups: Anti-bullying tactics and Techniques to stay positive, reduce stress and anger, stay focused and build self-esteem!
    • Sensitivity Training/Character Education for Students: Same curriculum as for the Adult Program (*see above with attached website links.)

 


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Strategies for Conflict Resolution/Intervention and Bullying Prevention

Professional to professional, in the workplace, as well as educational facilities. Professional to student; and student to student. Strategies are based on psycho-educational models.

Groups forming now onsite and in my Westbury, Long Island Office

Learn About and Participate in EFT: Emotional Freedom Techniques are a great tool for emotional release and stress management. Find out more about EFT: EFT: Emotional Freedom Techniques.

The content, length and fees of each program are customized to meet your needs.

SOAR! with Resilience® Training Manual or Balance & Power Inc eBooks accompany the programs and may be purchased at a group discounted fee.

Contact Eileen FREE Phone Consult:  www.balanceandpower.com    516 623 4353

 

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Saturday August 20 10-1

3 Hour Anger Management Completion Certificates accepted by the courts will be given if requested. Advance Registration only.

Location: 433 Maple Avenue, Westbury, New York 11590

Cost: $150 [Small groups, Limited seating ]

Register with Paypal  www.balanceandpower.com/events.php

Credit Cards accepted via telephone.

  • Enhance all aspects of stress and anger management
  • Communicate more effectively
  • Be happier

Explore strategies to release anger, reduce stress and deal effectively with others. Anger and communication issues are highly affected by stress levels.

The best predictor of a positive outcome is your willingness to honestly examine and admit the consequences of your problem and actions and have the intention to change patterns. Your anger and stress impacts your relationships, health, work life and financial situation.

Questions? Contact Eileen Now for a Complimentary Telephone Consult
Ph: 516 623 4353
Email: eileen@balanceandpower.com

10% discount for Veterans and their families

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or call 516 623 4353 with credit card.

**Pre registration only through noon Thursday before date of group.

August 20: Cost: $150

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Borrowing Benefits EFT Groups      Location: 433 Maple Avenue, Westbury, New York 11590
with Eileen Lichtenstein, MS. Ed. CEO, Balance & Power, Inc. Peak Performance Success Coach for Your Life and Career

When:
Please determine which available date works best for you.

Tuesday, Sept 15, 2015  Time: 7:00pm – 9:00pm
Tuesday, Oct 6, 2015  Time: 7:00pm – 9:00pm
Tuesday, Nov 10, 2015  Time: 7:00pm – 9:00pm
Tuesday, Dec 8, 2015  Time: 7:00pm – 9:00pm

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Cost: Individual Sessions $50 each      10% discount for Veterans and their families
[Small groups, Advance Registration Required]
Credit Cards accepted via telephone. Paypal: http://www.balanceandpower.com/eft.php

  • Release stress and resolve issues!
  • Build confidence!
  • Overcome fears!

Contact Eileen Now for a Complimentary Telephone Consult
516 623 4353 eileen@balanceandpower.com
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Anger Management Group 3 Hrs with Eileen Lichtenstein, Certified Anger Management Specialist.  Accepted by the courts.
Saturdays, Sept 19, Oct 10, Nov.12,Dec 12  Time: 10am – 1pm    $150 each date

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Advance Registration only. Contact Eileen Now for a Complimentary Telephone Consult
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