It is fairly common to experience a number of irritating situations in a single day. And if we don’t know what to do with our irritation, annoyance, or frustration, it blossoms into the oh-too-common ‘power struggle’. Wherever anger arises in your life, it is always in relationship to something or someone: your boss, partner, children, … More Power StruggleManagement
Anger is a natural human emotion. “Is my anger working for me?” is a question you can ask yourself. When anger is mild and infrequent, is expressed assertively (directly to the problem person, in a non-accusatory manner) and without aggression, and the individual is able to “let it go” quickly, then anger may serve the … More Is your anger working?
“Develop an attitude of gratitude, and give thanks for everything that happens to you, knowing that every step forward is a step toward achieving something bigger and better than your current situation.” – Brian Tracy Gratitude has been getting a lot of press in self-help/development curriculums because it is essential to acknowledge personal gratefuluness in several categories … More Create an Attitude of Gratitude and Be Happier!
This article is adapted from the Nikkei Asian Review and found in NAMA (National Anger Management Association, my certifying organization) Newsletter JUNE 2018 You may contact me for a complimentary consult: 516 623 4353 http://www.balanceandpower.com TOKYO — Aware that they may become irritated too often amid the demanding duties of work, household chores and child care, a growing … More Anger management, mindfulness programs are very popular in Japan as coping mechanisms
It is natural to feel resentment or anger when life does not unfold as expected. Perhaps expectations are not met, or relationships fail and we grieve for the loss. Most of the time, we work through these feelings and they pass. Anger and resentment must fade or will be transformed into bitterness. Bitter feelings allow us … More Celebrate possibilities and let go of bitterness…
I’m talking to parents, older siblings, grandparents, teachers, business managers/ceo’s and politicians. We are each leaders, even if (now) your domain is simply your home. Do you curse? Smile enough? Speak and act assertively? Listen actively? Demonstrate good time skills? Step away from devices on a regular basis? Mindful and considerate of others in household, office, neighbors? … More Are You a Good Role Model?
Yes, when you feel bullied or “unfairly” attacked emotionally – verbally it is usually difficult to respond without anger or to walk away and release. Reacting with anger adds fuel to the fire and it’s best to leave and release – even if it’s temporary it interrupts the stress-adrenaline -cortisol cycle and hopefully can allow … More Release versus React, Revenge
The ability to communicate ‘no’ really reflects that you are in the driver’s seat of your own life, and can give gives you a sense of empowerment. How to do it most effectively? A study in the Journal of Consumer Research by Professor Patrick and Henrik Hagtvedt found that saying “I don’t” as opposed to “I can’t” … More Be Assertive: Say No Effectively
Please determine which available date works best for you. Saturday, May 20 Time: 9am – 12pm Saturday, June 24 Time: 9am – 12pm Saturday, July 15 Time: 9am – 12pm Saturday, August 12 Time: 9am – 12pm 3 Hour Anger Management Completion Certificates accepted by the courts will be given if requested. Advance Registration only. … More Anger Management Group 3 Hrs (*Accepted by Courts)
Yes, research shows it’s possible! with actively choosing new ways to think, new ways to behave, and new environments that best suit your emotional style. We can change how the brain responds to emotional stimuli with researched strategies that include: Find out what your “hot buttons” are – what triggers your negative emotions. Observe your emotions … More Can you change the wiring in your brain?
We all were braced for a few days in – and yay! enough to close everything for one day – and gave most of us I hope – time to catch up!- I prepared materials for my Anger Management Group (2 seats available if you want to register now), was on a great networking call … More Catching up -snow day?!