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How to Overcome the Fear of Public Speaking

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1.  Let go of your resistance and accept!  the anxiety related physical  sensations you feel.  

 2. Let go of “can’t” thoughts; change the word!  

 3. Let go of being so hard on yourself and acknowledge “seasonal overwhelm and worry” for what it is- temporary!! Worry Graphics Code | Worry Comments & Pictures

And of course- whenever you can, BREATHE! extra deep in through nose (belly expanding), out through nose or mouth, releasing negative energy. 

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Side A: includes warm-up stretches and instruction in relaxation breathing. Original fluid upper body movements are then added along with visualizations and positive imagery. This program can be used with walking, running, skating, exercise bike, aquacise and seated exercise. It can also be used as a warm-up/cool down for a power walking or running program.

Side B: includes progressive muscle relaxation, gentle stretches, and equipped meditative sequences.

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The following is an excerpt from the “Create Optimal Happiness & Productivity” on-line six week course by Eileen Lichtenstein.

If you would like to take the entire course,  click here 

 

  • Are you ready for your life to be transformed?


  • Are you ready to reduce stress to optimal levels?


  • Can you imagine being happy most of the time?


  • Are you ready to make some personal shifts and see your career soar?


  • Learn how to get and stay inspired


  • Can you imagine being surrounded by positive people and creating optimal relationships?


Welcome to How to Create Optimal Happiness & Productivity - You are about to embark on a transformative journey of self-development that will guide you to amazing levels of happiness and abundance in your life. You will learn about components of happiness and productivity and how to apply it to your own circumstances. You will learn how to implement and adapt the strategies to your own life on an ongoing basis. 

Eileen Lichtenstein is a Peak Performance Success and Certified Career Coach. Her goal is to promote Optimal Wellness and Productivity in your life. Using goal setting, accountablity and stress and time management, she has helped and guided countless individuals and business executives, educators and financial experts – empowering all to achieve their dreams and goals. 

Stress Mangement:
During this course Eileen will take you through her amazing Stress and Time Management techniques so you can learn how to be happier, communicate more effectively and find the balance in your life you are looking for. 

Aging is the body’s reaction to environmental and psychological stress. How we deal with stress profoundly affects the way we look and feel. Eileen gives you several very effective techniques to deal with stress in your life.


Effective Time Management:
You will learn to recognize what isn’t working in your life and will be given the tools to assist you in the awareness necessary for your transformation to leading a balanced life. 

Emotional Freedom Technique:
You will learn beginning Emotional Freedom Technique, also known at EFT/ tapping, so you can use your own body’s energies to remove negative emotions. It has been called the modern version of ‘acupuncture without the needles’ and ‘acupressure without pain’. 

Cognitive Distortions:
Cognitive distortions are exaggerated and irrational thoughts which can hold us back from our true potential. Eliminating these distortions and negative thoughts can improve mood, reduce stress and discourage such maladies such as depression and anxiety. During this course Eileen will walk you through these Cognitive Distortions so you can maximize your potential

How To Break The Conflict Cycle:
Eileen will show you how to break the ‘Conflict Cycle’ and how to ‘Access Your Best Communication Style’. 

If you are ready to make the 6 week commitment, 
you will leave this course with:

  • increased confidence
  • improved self-esteem
  • a healthy and well-adjusted mind and body


Your Business and Your Life:
This course can start turning your ailing business – or life – around. 
Even if you’re doing well, this course will propel you to a higher level of success and happiness! Thinking about becoming an entrepreneur? Looking for a career change, a reinvention? 

And if you are simply feeling overwhelmed with life, “sandwich generation” or parenting issues, this program will help get you get unstuck, be fearless and Create Optimal Happiness & Productivity! 


What You Will Learn: 

  • How to reduce stress


  • Personal Goal Setting


  • Overcoming Obstacles


  • Setting limits


  • Relationship building and effective communication


  • How to get and stay inspired
What You Will Gain: 

  • Increased Self Confidence


  • Peace of Mind


  • Balance


  • Higher Income Potential


  • A Feeling of Well Being and Improved Health


  • A Better Understanding of Your True Capabilities


The time is now: 
Start taking your personal or professional life to a higher level of success and satisfaction. In this course Eileen takes you through her personal journey of accomplishment while showing how you too can achieve the same peace and balance she has achieved in her own life. 

About Eileen:
I’ve overcome obstacles in areas of my life… After battling colitis for many years, I found a holistic approach to healing myself that worked wonderfully together with my medical care. My participation in modalities incorporating positive thinking, affirmations, relaxation breathing, exercise and stretching were instrumental to my conquering colitis and became part of my Moving Meditation® Fitness audio program. 

16 years ago, I was involved in a pedestrian accident in which my right foot was run over by a van, which left me with five breaks in a bone in my foot. During my recovery I was asked by a local physician to help write a curriculum for a new stress-reduction program he was developing. He encouraged me to read John Kabot-Zinn’s Full Catastrophe Living” and Herbert Benson’s “The Relaxation Response”, which turned my negative attitude towards recovery around and were catalysts to my healing and I was able to teach Hatha yoga for this course within a few months. 

I was dealing with a severely broken foot, which had huge amounts of tissue damage. During this time of healing, with my prognosis unknown,I decided to become a trained bio-feedback therapist as well as work in that field in order to have career “back-up” because of my unknown prognosis. 

The mind-body connection, the autogenic and relaxation training plus counseling techniques contributed significantly to my own healing; a powerful reinforcement of the power of the mind-body connection. I was also greatly impacted during this time by professional training at the Omega Institute with Dr. Kabat-Zinn, who founded the Center for Mindfulness Based Stress-Reduction Programs at the University of Massachusetts Medical Center. The training was pivotal in integrating all the work I was doing and clarified my goal to be trained as a professional coach. I then went on to the Corporate Coach University, a branch of Coach U and recognized by the International Coach Federation. 

Since then I have been and continue to be inspired by the impact people can have on their lives when they choose to manage and reduce stress. I am honored to be a part of that process in anyway that I can. 

This is What People Are Saying About “How to Create Optimal Happiness & Productivity” and Eileen’s coaching: 

“Eileen’s interactive program is both enlightening and motivating. Eileen truly partners with you as your Peak Performance Success and Career Coach as she takes you step-by-step through her process of achieving success.”
- Dawn Abraham, Life and Business Coach
http://www.motivationalwhisperers.com 

“Anyone who wants to achieve his or her potential will benefit by taking this course. It’s down to earth and will empower you to achieve your dreams.”
- Ted Fattoross, CEO/Founder http://www.joinnetworkplus.com 

“Eileen is truly an amazing life coach. She is great to work with. If you are looking to reach goals that you think are almost impossible to attain, whether career or personal, … She will get you there…and quickly!” 
- Susan Brozinsky 

“Eileen Lichtenstein’s wealth of experience and knowledge of executive coaching combined with the Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) have created a positive life energy within me to help get on the road to achieving my goals and dreams. Thanks Eileen!”
- Dr. Bruce Kesten, Kinesiology Chiropractor 

Are you ready for your life to be transformed?
Join Eileen now for this 6 week course and get ready to Create Optimal Happiness & Productivity! 

Eileen Lichtenstein, President Balance and Power™ Inc., is a Peak Performance Success Life and Career Coach and the author of “SOAR! with Resilience™: The Interactive Book for Overcoming Obstacles & Achieving Success”

 If you would like to take the entire 6 week opnline  course,  click here 

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The Mayo Clinic Staff reports that researchers are claiming that, in addition to improving your spiritual health, forgiveness may have benefits for your physical health, too.  This is definitely something that warrants our attention!  It is being said that “letting go of grudges and bitterness can make way for compassion, kindness and peace, and that forgiveness can lead to:

  •  Healthier relationships
  • Greater spiritual and psychological well-being
  • Less anxiety, stress and hostility
  • Lower blood pressure
  • Fewer symptoms of depression
  • Lower risk of alcohol and substance abuse”

Well, this helps explain the statement I’ve heard and read again and again that if you experience a high level of gratitude you cannot be depressed.  This makes sense since depression is anger suppressed.  Imagine a line with frustration in the middle.  It can go either way- one end is depression(extremely suppressed anger) and the other is a high anger level – often in an inappropriate, aggressive way.

What about “unforgiveness” as a health risk, then?

The University of Maryland School of Medicine  is researching the connection between anger and  ”unforgiveness”. Anger is a component of unforgiveness and anger is a health risk.  Then is unforgiveness  a health risk  as well? Included in the research are studies with aids patients.  Knowing more about the nature and course of anger expression in the context of unforgiveness will ultimately help define and clarify this area of research.

Now I’ll share a few important points that can be helpful in letting go of anger- something I’ve learned as an Advanced EFT  (Emotional Freedom Techniques) Certified Practitioner in a training I attended and has been reinforced in trainings to facilitate Anger Management.

  • As the victim, it’s OK to forgive only a small percent.
  • Perhaps the other’s behavior was impacted by a chemical/emotional imbalance
  • *** The other was doing what he/she knew how to do – perhaps learned – no matter.
  • It’s possible that the action was not meant “personally” – it was simply an “M.O.”
  • It’s impossible to change another person’s way of dealing; only your own.

If you or someone you love gets help with managing anger and/or letting it go as a victim, then stress is automatically addressed and therefore health will improve too!

 Balance & Power, Inc. has been addressing stress and anger management issues for two decades, corporately and  in the educational and private sectors, and is now facilitating Workplace Bullying Prevention trainings.

Download: Workplace Bullying Prevention Programs (pdf)

Bullying in the workplace, the schools and at home has reached epidemic proportions – it is our goal to help eliminate these type of situations. Eileen Lichtenstein, CEO, believes inner strength and being centered are keys to optimal productivity and happiness. She is a Certified Anger Management Specialist, accepted by the US courts, a former Biofeedback Practitioner and faculty member at HofstraUniversity.  Her office is in Wantgh, NY, the telephone, Video Skype or on your site.  

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 Basic Human Rights: Success and Happiness
A  sector of the population prevents others from achieving these basic human rights, and it seems to be growing.  I’m not talking about governments now, but individuals- “bullies”- and as children/youth bullies  grow up to  become adult  bullies, often criminal in nature.   No matter what age, there are several common characteristics among bullies and extremely angry people:

  • Poor or no self-esteem
  • Poor or no self-love
  • Shame
  • Poor communication skills

Several years ago, I became a certified anger management specialist/educator and work with court mandated  as well as individuals and groups who are truly motivated to learn how to release anger and stress in appropriate ways and have happier, more successful lives.

The other side of the spectrum are the victims.  Those who have been bullied , physically and/or emotionally abused have a lot in common:

  • Poor or no self-esteem
  • Poor or no self-love
  • Depression or Anger
  • Difficulty focusing
Do you know any bullies, any victims?  I bet you do- we all do.  New York State recently passed a cyber-bullying law.  This will help, yet many cases fall through the cracks of the educational system.  What can we do as compassionate citizens?  If you are a parent or educator it is important to have your antennae up for children who are acting unusually- perhaps being secretive, moodier or angrier than usual.  This is difficult, especially with teens; yet, it is our responsibility to watch for symptoms and be a trusted adult and role model for youth   to feel comfortable around and confide in.  
I am work with a suicide prevention anti-bullying-bully survivor support group in Suffolk County, Long Island and am facilitating trainings for educators and parents.  You may find out more from my newsletter and receive a Free Empowerment Guide for you and to share

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3 Dates Available:

When: Saturday Jan 14, 2012
When: Saturday Jan 28, 2012
When: Saturday Feb 11, 2012

Time: 9:00am to 3:00 PM (Noon to 1pm Lunch Break)

  • Enhance all aspects of stress and anger management
  • Communicate more effectively
  • Be happier

Explore strategies to release anger, reduce stress and deal effectively with others. Anger and communication issues are highly affected by stress levels. The best predictor of a positive outcome is your willingness to honestly examine and admit the consequences of your problem and actions and have the intention to change patterns. Your anger and stress impacts your relationships, health, work life and financial situation.

Pre-Registration Only.
Cost: $150
Group-couple rates 10% discount per person. 
*Court mandated and non-mandated participants welcome!

Location: 775 Wantagh Avenue. Wantagh, NY.
Long Island exit 28N Southern State Parkway.

Individual stress and anger management are being facilitated in Wantagh, Baldwin and via telephone and Skype. These include EFT as a helping modality.

Contact Eileen now for details and to reserve your spot via PayPal:, money order or credit card.

Eileen Lichtenstein
PO Box 894
Baldwin, NY 11510
Ph:             516 623 4353
Email: eileen@balanceandpower.com

Credit Card payments accepted by telephone.

Saturday Jan 14:
Cost: $150
Saturday Jan 28:
Cost: $150
Saturday Feb 11:
Cost: $150


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If you struggle with food or weight issues
in any way I want to recommend a video for
you to watch right now…

It will only take you a few minutes and it
will have a profound impact on you, in a
very tangible way that you'll be able to
feel right as you watch.

The video is of EFT expert Carol Look using
EFT Tapping with an audience member at a live
event called "The Tapping Experience", to help
her overcome her overpowering food cravings.  

Here's what I recommend…

Watch the video and as you do, do the EFT Tapping
along with them.  Even if you don't know how to
do Tapping just copy what they're doing and
repeat what they're saying as if you were
one of the members of the audience.

And as you do you'll begin to feel how effective
EFT Tapping is in helping people get to the
root cause of food and we*ght issues and how
it is used to resolve these issues quickly.

Here's the link to the video:

http://www.thetappingsolution.com/cmd.php?Clk=4419279

One interesting thing that you'll realize
when watching is that your food issues aren't
about the food…

Yup, that's right…they are NOT about the food.  

You'll get to find out what they ARE about as
you watch the video and tap along.

This is some powerful stuff that can have an
immediate impact on your life.

http://www.thetappingsolution.com/cmd.php?Clk=4419279

Enjoy the video and make sure to share your
comments on how the video effected you on the
blog after you watch.

Eileen Lichtenstein

P.S. - Up to this point you've probably just
been told to deal with we*ght issues by eating
less and exercising more.  It hasn't been that
easy though has it?  

You're about to find out that there's more to
it than that but there's a simple solution… 

 http://www.thetappingexperience.com/EFT/

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Perk-u-lators Event:
How to Thrive Amidst Chaos
“Reduce Stress, Create Dreams And Heal Your Life Both Physically And Emotionally”


“LET THE PERK-U-LATORS PERK U UP!”

When: Sunday September 18, 2011
Time: 9:30 AM – 6:00 PM
Location: Holiday Inn Westbury
369 Old Country Road Carle Place, NY 11514
Lower Level Holiday Inn 516 997 5000

Cost: $100.00
Event Registration closes 8/22

Do you find yourself repeating patterns that are not working?
Do you find yourself going over and over in your mind how you should have handled a situation differently?
Are you losing control in your life, In your business and/or in your relationships?

Are You One of These People?

If you answered yes to any of the above, then You must attend this workshop!!!!

Learn hands-on techniques to:

  • Reduce Stress
  • Gain Confidence
  • Create Effective Goals

We provide ALL the tools you need to Reduce Stress, Create Dreams and Heal your Life both Physically and Emotionally

The Perk-u-lators are:

Eileen Lichtenstein, MS Ed is a Peak Performance Success Coach with over 25 years in the stress management and coaching field, a Certified Anger Management Specialist, EFT Practitioner and author “SOAR! with Resilience”™
www.balanceandpower.com 

Rev. Diana Moore A/K/A Light Teacher™ is a certified hypnotist, with over 25 years experience as a life coach. She is author of “The Self-Empowerment System” (as seen on TV) and originator of the Light Work System.
www.Lightteacher.com 

Rev. Wilma Zaltman MS Ed is a Transformation Leader, Visionary and Health Intuitive, with over 35years experience in the field of stress management.
www.reverendwilma.com www.morpho-transcendence.com 

CALL NOW to RESERVE YOUR SPACE! Eileen: 516.623.4353
Event Registration closes 8/22

Paypal below or or mail check to:
Eileen Lichtenstein, Balance & Power, Inc.
PO Box 894
Baldwin, NY 11510

eileen@balanceandpower.com

Cost: $100

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Hi Everyone!

Do you have “seasonal” and all the time things & people to be with and to inspire you?

Here are a few of mine:):  You can share yours on my blog 

Summer:

Walks on the beach and on boardwalk

Kayaking

Bicyclying

Hangin’ on my deck with family and friends

Dinner-drinks outside on my deck or elsewhere

All the time:

Movies & theater

A good book

Music

Family-friends

Travel

Fun work-outs (Zumba!)

Facilitating workshops

one:one peak performance success life and career coaching

The internet

Business Networking

Due to the unpredictable local and global economy and that we feel that the content of our FULL DAY of workshops “How to Thrive Amidst Chaos” is as important for folks to know about and partake in as the food we eat, The Perk-u-lators  (Rev Wilma Zaltman and Rev Diana Moore and I) have lowered the admission fee to $100.  Details, register here (scroll)  

 
DO YOU GET ANXIOUS WHEN SITTING IN TRAFFIC?  DO YOU SOMETIMES FEEL OVERWHELMED WITH YOUR DAY?  DOES YOUR JOB, RELATIONSHIP
  STRESS YOU OUT? 
In this workshop, you will learn how to cope with everyday stress which can cause emotional, mental and physical problems and is even a cause of death.
YOU CANNOT AFFORD TO MISS THIS OPPORTUNITY TO LEARN COPING SKILLS in a FULL DAY OF INTERACTIVE WORKSHOPS

***********************************************************


I am excited! to share with you that the 2nd revised &

updated revision of my book          is underway!  I’m including a section on Anger Management and updates to current sections as well as an additional  softcover book format which will be available with the workbook-manual.

Summer Special!


$99 POWER HOUR! via telephone and video skype!
with 4, 6, 12 week Peak Performance Success Life & Career Coaching packages available for full manifestation!
Baldwin & Wantagh, LI offices

Contact Eileen now for details:
516 623 4353
eileen@balanceandpower.com

NeedAnger Management?
Face to face individual and group sessions in Wantagh and via Video Skype

  My TV shows here!

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Wednesdays 4PM EST

7/27:  Rob Basso, CEO  Advantage Payroll, Inc.

8/3:  Bruce Frankel, Baby Boomer Author:

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Keep Soaring!

Eileen Lichtenstein
CEO, Balance & Power Inc.

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 Eileen Lichtenstein, MS. Ed.   Peak Performance Success Coach/Trainer and Professional Speaker,
Stress Management, Anger Management,  EFT, “SOAR! with Resilience” Programs & Manual,  | Baldwin, NY, USA
516.623.4353    eileen@balanceandpower.com

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“They” say that people’s fear of public speaking is worse than our fear of  death.  The fear  and anxiety that  public speaking causes is the #1 fear in the  world!

  • Are you one of the many whose knees shake and voice quails if you have to present a speech or compete in your sport or ask the boss for a raise?
  • Do you quake at the thought of public speaking?
  • Do you  feel terrified of being asked a question in a group?
  • Are you one of those people who hides your talents and accomplishments because of this anxiety and fear that public speaking produces?
  • Do you need and want to give talks so people know who you are and what you offer and are paralyzed with anxiety of public speaking
  • Perhaps you are you wanting to promote your business through public talks but are too afraid to speak.
  • Are you someone who thinks you just can’t do it (or do it “well enough”)—whatever “it” is
  • Have you ever felt dizzy or disoriented when you were performing?
  • Has your heart ever started pounding so loud that you hear it in your head?
  • Have you found yourself breaking out in a sweat at the mere thought of speaking in front of a group of people?
  • If you’re performing on stage, do you expect to be judged by others?
  • Have you ever “frozen” or “choked” when it’s your turn to deliver lines?
  • Does it feel as if you’ve “lost your voice”?
  • Have you ever had a panic attack “out of the blue”?

Whether you are making a cold call to one person over the phone, competing in an athletic or musical event, or speaking/ performing in front of group for any occasion, you can suffer with the anxiety of public speaking.

Imagine how free you will feel when you finally eliminate your fear and anxiety of public speaking and FIND YOUR VOICE!

 Imagine what you could do “it” if you didn’t have any negative thought in mind.  Imagine that your fear and anxiety of public speaking is gone- pouf!

Imagine that you will love expressing what you have say (or sing, perform), and people will love hearing you say/do it!

 You can easily transform this fear and anxiety of public speaking with powerful visualizations, affirmations, reframing, relaxation/stress release techniques  and   EFT (The Emotional Freedom Technique, meridian tapping)  together with peak performance coaching.

When you use the EFT and relaxation  methods ahead of time and, instead of feeling the familiar anxiety before addressing a group you are calm and cool—even when the microphone doesn’t start on time or the projector for Power Point isn’t hooked up.

My work encompasses helping people to overcome fear of public speaking because I know how devastating high performance anxiety can be.  I’ve experienced it myself over the years of being interviewed by the media and in speaking before large groups.  Experience/practice + relaxation/release techniques got me to the point of almost  no anxiety.  My own work with EFT before a presentation has eradicated any jitters or self-doubt.  I have a positive attitude of wanting to share and explore possibilities with the group. My success rate with clients in this field is 100% after 1-3 sessions.  We always uncover related aspects of the speaking fear, so the work continues on a average of 6 sessions.

See my Client Success Video on conquering his Fear of Public Speaking and my TV interview about it!

You may  Contact me for Complimentary Consult via telephone or Skype:

www.balanceandpower.com

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