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Sandy's Path of Destruction Horror stories, boats in houses, boardwalks in front yards, no power means no heat too; it’s cold in NY now.  I’m booting up in nearby town of Rockville Centre that has the business district hopping with electric.  A sense of community, repair, boredom, hopelessness and overwhelm for some.  Homelessness, shelters and evacuations are no fun.  Uprooted and possessions gone- a lot of that on Long Island, Queens, Brooklyn, downtown Manhattan, Staten Island & New Jersey.  So, if you’re simply bored with no power, no work happening and have your stuff and your peeps-well then- let’s have big gratefulness positive energy happening.  You’ve got you!! And that’s a lot.  Here’s a few things to do:

Light some candles and meditate- become one with a flame for a few minutes!

Visit someone by bicycle (save gasoline, which is a additional problem now)

Read a book(s)

Clean out some shelves

Have a post hurricane party!

Dance!

Still no power in my home; I’m at Panera’s RVC now.

We’re fortunate to have hot water, stove top and my neighbor’s generator hooked to the fridge a few hours a day.

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Creative visualization is a mental technique that uses the imagination to make dreams come true, which in turn reduces or eliminates stress around the “not having”.  Creative visualization can improve our life and attract success and prosperity. It is a power that can alter our environment and circumstances, cause events to happen, and attract money, possessions, work, people and love into our life.
The subconscious is incredibly powerful, representing five-sixths of our brain’s thinking and power. To achieve success consistently and effortlessly, you must align your subconscious mind with what you want to create in your life and let go of past programming. If your subconscious beliefs conflict with the outcomes you’re consciously affirming, you’re guaranteed to fail. The subconscious wins … every time.  An ideal time to visualize is in the morning and before sleep, perhaps after meditating.

Visualize what you want. Your subconscious can’t tell the difference between a real and imagined event. When it “sees” what you want to achieve, it will find ways to make your dreams come true.  The same works regarding stress.  “Act as if” and visualizing “it” daily works wonders.  For instance, if you are stressed that you are overweight and a goal is to lose 10 pounds, visualize your self at that weight- in those clothes.  Act as if you are already losing the weight and do not go on the scale.  Simply smile, exercise and eat well to “maintain” your lost weight.

Here’s another example: You know you need a vacation and can’t imagine taking the time off. Well, do exactly that in your mind, and in real time act as if you are going- soon!  Perhaps you want to “mind map” the visualization and look at it throughout the day: Write the word vacation in a circle on a paper and draw lines of branches and paths that are the details of the vacation connecting to the circle.  You may use colored pencils and markers- make it a fun activity.  Mind mapping is a great tool to fast forward any visualization into reality.

Let me know how visualization and mind mapping work for you! and you may contact me for a complimentary coaching consult: http://www.balanceandpower.com 516 623 4353

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Today is the birthday of Mohatma Gandhi, India’s spiritual and political leader in the early 1900s. He helped India win independence from Great Britain through a policy of nonviolent civil disobedience, a policy imitated in the 1960s by Martin Luther King, Jr. Today I attended a community Anti-Bullying Rally and the Superintenent of Freeport (Long Island) public schools led us in a wonderful meditation. Be Peace!

The meditation was about creating and sustaining inner peace and joy so that we can weather storms around us without “losing it” .  The rally was in beautiful Zion Cathedral ,  the meditation a bit unusual and totally appropriate given by an educator and community leader.  The  rally-morning was even more special coming on the heels of the Jewish New Year, Rosh Hashonah,  that is very meditative, and of course full of prayers for peace.

My colleagues Richard Kebanoff and Jordan Silver are currently producing the documentary “BULLYCIDE: The voice of Complicity that I am proud to be having a small interview in as a certified anger management specialist.

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 “Meditation is simply about being yourself and knowing who that is.  It is about coming to realize that you are on a path whether you like it or not, namely the path that is your life.”   
Jon Kabat-Zinn

 

The definition of meditation is to reflect on; to contemplate.Hindu and Buddhist traditions train to calm, to empty the mind, often by achieving an altered state; as by focusing on a single object. Some define meditation as devotional contemplation as in prayer. For purposes of this article, we will focus on meditation as being present in the moment and calming and relaxing the mind.

How to Meditate  

As a beginner to meditation, some simple ways to make meditation a daily practice are available. Let’s explore some steps to get started.

1. Make a decision to begin your mindful meditation.

2. Prepare a special place in your home. Many create a sacred altar. It is helpful to use the same room or part of a room each time you meditate.

You want to bring loving and positive energy into your mindful meditation space. The purpose is to be apart from the ordinary day to day experience. Once you get started and feel comfortable with the process continue to your special place. Add flowers, crystals or rocks. Whatever you like as you go a long to make it special. For now light a special candle.

3.Commitment: Having this special space will assist you to keep your commitment to your new practice.

4. Time: Create a regular time of day to get the benefits of meditation. Energy workers recommend every twelve hours. The most beneficial times are to begin and end your day with meditation; when you are most receptive and open.

5. Start with a Comfortable position: Sitting upright allows the energy of the body to flow; and helps to avoid falling asleep which is easy to do when relaxed. If it is difficult to sit upright, lying down also works.

Do not cross your arms or legs. You can  open your hands palms open to symbolize your open and readiness.  Or place them pals down on your knees or folded together thumbs touching without interlacing fingers to create a grounding position.

6. Breath: The most important part of meditation is the breath. Bring your attention to the breath. The breath is our life force energy. Simply notice the breath as it moves up and down as your body inhales and exhales. If your mind wanders, simply bring it back. Just bring awareness to what is going on within you.

Don’t get discouraged if the mind wanders. Just allow any thoughts, feelings and bodily sensations to come and go. You are retraining it through practice. The purpose of meditation is to go inward and quiet the mind.

7. Five Minutes: Begin slowly and work your way up to ten minutes and so on. You can continue to progress to 45 minutes to an hour. As you relax into the experience, time will stand still and relaxation and ease will permeate you.

8. If you have trouble with the silent breathing meditation you can try a Mp3 to guide you at the beginning.( See link below) to become fully present in the body. Imagine your feet going into the earth and allow that energy to move up your body feeling solid, strong and purposeful like a tall oak tree. A grounding meditation can be done two ways.  You can also learn  to bring the energy and presence into your body.

   Reaping all the benefits of meditation takes practice and the commitment to the daily ritual. Regularity will quicken the success you have in experiencing this. You will soon begin to feel that still point or the stillness that the ancient teachers spoke of.

Mindful Meditation Tips:

Calm and stability of the mind is the purpose of mindful meditation. As we continue our practice, the time we give to our self and meditation becomes a precious gift. A higher purpose to this practice is to bring this calm and stable energy to every part of our day and experiences. We become the calm in the storm. We are able to remain peaceful even during stress and challenges.

Mindfulness also supports us to be in the present moment. Being fully present means not living in the past or future. This moment is all there is. We create in the present. Our creativity and intuitive knowing are felt in the presence of the moment. As we become regular meditators, inspiration, insights and intuition are the gifts we receive from our dedication and commitment.

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Meditation is proving to have physiological, psychological as well as spiritual benefits.  The  April 21 issue of   Brain Research Bulletin, the researchers found that people trained to meditate over an eight-week period were better able to control a specific type of brain waves called alpha rhythms. An article in Psychology Today states that neuroscientists have found that meditators shift their brain activity to different areas of the cortex, brain waves in the stress-prone right frontal cortex move to the calmer left frontal cortex. Studies are showing that meditation helps with stress, fatigue, strengthen the immune system and much more.

Seven Top Benefits of Meditation:

1. Many health benefits including increasing blood flow and slowing the heart rate. Research has revealed that meditation increases the activity of the natural killer cells which kill bacteria and cancer cells.

2. Helps concentration and focus. Many athletes reap the benefits of meditation to strength their concentration to become better at their sport.

3. Builds self confidence and help with phobias and fears

4. Aids your efforts to quit smoking and addiction

5. Brings more inner harmony and brings a deeper understanding of oneself and others.

6. Helps bring more peace of mind which benefits us holistically; mind, body and spirit.

7. Meditation can help you to discover your purpose for being here.

Mindful Meditation is simple to learn and becomes natural with practice and commitment. It is free and can be done in your home, office or out in nature.

Meditation can cultivate an inner peace and happiness that most everyone longs for in this life experience. In this busy, hectic world, meditation is a key to bring more balance, relaxation and peace to life.  I invite you to get started today.

You may even meditate at work (if push comes to shove).  Encourage your company to provide a space for this.

Listen to Moving Meditation® Fitness:  These are two sections of an audio program that I produced in 1985:

Track #2: Rythmic Movement
Track #7: Guided Relaxation

and see Stress Reduction Tips on my website BalanceandPower

Arrange a FREE 15 minute telephone  consult to find out how we can work together to meet your goals.

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If you need immediate help here are some stress tips you can implement today:

  • Take Cleansing Breaths: Three sets of deep inhalations through the nose (belly rising)
    and exhaling through the nose, (abdomen deflating) can (temporarily) change
    your physiology.
  • Stretch: Practice Office Yoga and the Moving Meditation® Fitness Program 
    throughout the day to release/reduce tension and increase energy.
  • Walk: A five minute walk outside can change your mood and mindset.  Try adding  breathwork + affirmations: even better!
  • Listen to Music: A mood changer.
  • Eat Peacefully: This aids the digestion and gives you “time away”. Leave your office!
  • Allow Time: Give yourself extra time for the unexpected.
  • Smile and Laugh: Humor has been proven effective in reducing stress.

You may contact me for a complimentary 15 minute telephone consult. I coach individuals and groups via phone, skype and face to face in the NY area.

What people are saying about Eileen’s Seminars & Coaching

“Eileen’s Presentation was very engaging and well received by all. We are living in an economic climate full of stress and endless things to do. Most people do not take the time out of their busy schedules to relax, balance and effectively manage the stress in their lives. Your program is highly recommended for all to become a well-rounded, balanced person.”
- Georgia Joseph-Gant, Director
Freeport Business & Professional Resource Support Group

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Ibrahim Zahran, Nassau County Sheriff
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If you’re tired of feeling angry, frustrated and/or too stressed ( by personal assessment) here is  great news!:  Research has proven that we  can retrain ourselves, break old patterns and create – change our neurological wiring- without medication.  If you are already taking meds, (it is indicated for some chemical inbalances)  that’s fine- you can feel even better and happier!

The biggest factor for successful personal development is being motivated and having a strong intention to make changes.  Did you know that depression has a lot to do with suppressed anger (conscious and subconscious), and that when anger /stress/frustration  cortisol and adrenaline is properly channeled through exercise, Yoga, EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques, tapping) and meditative-relaxation techniques  the feel good hormones of  endorphins and serotonin kick in and are sent to the section of your brain that deals with emotions and the fear response, the amygdalia. 

Do you or someone you know need extra motivation, guidance and strategies to combat anger, frustration, stress and want be more empowered, happier, more productive and successful?  I conduct one-one and group sessions in Long Island and via telephone-Skype, as well as on site at your location.  You may contact me for a FREE CONSULT.  I am a  Certified Anger Specialist (accepted by US court system for court mandates), EFT Practitioner and former Biofeedback Therapist and personal trainer-yoga instructor, integrating mind-body modalities into my coaching and classes as indicated.

Let’s be interactive on this blog! Thank you all :) xoxo

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The hardest thing about making a decision is that it means examining everything life puts in front of us, making a choice and following through with action.  It is only through acknowledging the existence of what’s not working for us by turning inward, that we can begin the process of making a decision and following through with action. So saying yes doesn’t mean indiscriminately accepting things that don’t work for us. It means conversing with ourselves, accessing our inner power and then starting the conversation with a very powerful word — yes.

When we say yes to a choice, we enter into a state of trust that whatever our situation is, that we can work with it. We express confidence in ourselves and a willingness to learn from whatever comes our way.   The question we might ask ourselves is what it will take for us to get to the point of saying yes. For some of us, it takes coming up against something we can’t ignore, escape, deny or feel uncomfortable with.  For others, it just seems a natural progression of events that leads us to making a decision.

It’s important to examine the moments when we resist what is happening. It might be scary at first, and even painful at times, but if we persevere and continue the process  we will discover the joy of being in a positive conversation with a force much bigger than ourselves. Reframing, meditation, EFT (The Emotional Freedom Technique, meridian tapping) and working with an expert coach in these modalities can be very helpful and help you become unstuck and unblocked in decision making.  The coach also becomes someone to be accountable to with decisions you have made and goals that you have created.

I will be happy to discuss this  and related issues with you:
Complimentary Peak Performance Success Coaching Consult via telephone or Skype.

 

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The dictionary does not tell us how to accelerate the resilience process, it only defines it:

1.  “springing back into shape, position, etc. after being stretched, bent or compressed.”

2.  “recovering strength, spirits, etc. quickly.”

Being resilient in body, mind and spirit is key  to being happy and successful in all areas of life.  Emotionally, it’s the opposite of being “stuck in a rut” and it’s about being positive.  Physically, it can translate to strength and flexibility. Spiritually it can indicate faith with the ability to maintain hope in tumultuous times.  It’s about staying centered and grounded and making “right” choices.

So, you may be asking yourself, how does one maintain emotional-spiritual equilibrium and resiliency when things can be unpredictable and often in crisis mode? How can we accelerate the resilience process?  It’s not easy, and takes some work. It’s easy to create positive patterns and habits when life is going smoothly.  It can be quite challenging while being swept away by negative forces.  A good mentor/coach and practice is important, and the practice will create a “spill-over” effect into life situations.

Many people, including myself, have learned how to be more resilient.  There are skill sets of meditation, relaxation breathing, visualization and “tapping” (EFT- Emotional Freedom Techniques) that all add into helping an individual maintain focus and be positive. Exercising, eating healthfully and being in healthy relationships are naturally fortifying. Most people are not born resilient, but do have the capacity to learn how to be this way.  Here are a few tips to accelerate the process:
• Think of possibilities from different perspectives.
• Stop talking in absolutes. Eliminate the words nothing and never from self talk.
• Set specific goals that are attainable.
• When you are feeling down due to personal circumstances, take stock of your strengths.
• Lower the stakes, not the standards: Don’t have your whole life riding on the outcome of one event
• Savor small triumphs, steps leading to the bigger picture.
• Set aside self blame and learn from your mistakes.
• Surround yourself with positive people
• Do not read, watch or listen to the news if you become “too upset”.
• Take a few minutes each day to reflect on your feelings.
• Cultivate generosity and gratitude.
You are the only one who can control your attitude. By focusing on what is strong and enduring and seeing your potential, you can take calculated risks and overcome challenges. It takes an open, creative mind free from anxiety to pick up on opportunities. They are out there ready to be accessed by your positive and resilient radar!

Author of “SOAR! with Resilience”, Eileen Lichtenstein, MS.ED.,EFT-ADV is President of www.balanceandpower.com.  She offers complimentary coaching consultations via telephone and Skype and  empowers individuals and groups to facilitate optimal levels of productivity and happiness. Contact Eileen: eileen@balanceandpower.com 516 623 4353

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WOW!! I’m excited: The Balance and Power Network on BlogTalkRadio has a Fabulous Fall Line-up! www.blogtalkradio.com/eileen-lichtenstein
for schedule, guest descriptions-topics & archives
Call-in Number: (347) 215-8808 to participate with the guests and Eileen.

The Balance and Power Network on Blog Talk Radio is a venue to learn about unique and powerful ways to access goals, be happier and more productive. Several of my fabulous guests this season and on the archives are colleagues from Motivational Whisperers, a premiere on line community of self & business help – development gurus in various fields. If you are interested in being a guest on the radio show, please contact eileen@balanceandpower.com.

Fabulous Fall Line-up

9/8 4PM EST Stephanie Riseley is a writer, a teacher and hypnotherapist. Her book “Love From Both Sides – A True Story of Soul Survival and Sacred Sexuality”, (Findhorn Publishing, 2008) tells the story of “my husband dying in my arms and coming back to chat”. This will be a fascinating show! stephanieriseley.com

9/15 4PM EST Carol Adams is Certified Instructor of Hypnosis and designs courses to fit your life style and goals,empowering you to start a part time or full time career as a Hypnotist or add Hypnosis to your present modality as well as worjing with individual and group hypnotherapy sessions. Carol and I will be co-facilitating a powerful Teleclass Oct.13 8PM EST- stay tuned!! http://www.yestoyoursuccess.com

9/22 4PMEST Luis Angel Diaz is author of the book “Memory in the Cells” and the founder of CMR international that is an organization that specializes in educating and training people to make positive changes in their lives using the Cellular Memory Release process. http://www.cellularmemory.org/index_english.php

10/6 4PMEST Jeff Goldberg Jeff Goldberg & Associates is committed to helping salespeople, and the organizations they work for, grow and prosper through sales training and consulting. http://www.jgsalespro.com

10/20 4PMEST Rochelle Toga-Figa is “The Sales Breakthrough Expert”, the creator of the Sales Breakthrough System™, a proven step-by-step sales process that will help you close more sales, sign on more clients and make more money with ease and velocity. www.SalesBreakthroughs.com.

11/3 4PMEST Rob Basso The Basso On Business community is inspiring the entrepreneurial spirit and helping American businesses get back on their feet www.BassoOnBusiness.com

11/17 4PMEST Tom Von Deck is the creator of foolproof, versatile and secular personal and workplace stress reduction programs and home training products. http://www.deepermeditation.net/

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What do you do to debunk the funk?

Depending on my mood, energy, the season, time, etc. here are my “debunkers”

  • walk on the shore
  • sit or lie down quietly and meditate
  • work-out
  • see a movie
  • do EFT
  • play with my cat
  • do yoga
  • listen to music
  • read a great book

to name a few.. what are yours?

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