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What are the warning signs, what characteristics of a child can we look for to be “at risk” of becoming a bully?  Sadly to observe, many adults exhibit these traits too.  The children can most likely be redirected and provided with effective coping mechanism and tools and take positive routes in the world of socialization.  Many adults are capable of learning new approaches as well; research has shown new neurological paths may be created and that it’s almost always “never too late”.  It’s been my experience that when I work with adults, that to change ingrained patterns of bullying or almost any behaviors, they must have a strong intention to change.  I’ve seen amazing positive results working with children, youth and adults as a certified  anger management specialist and empowerment-success expert when there is this intention.  Here are clues to watch out for, the warning signs of becoming a “bully”:

  • Appears to enjoy  being powerful and respected with fear
  • Equates being powerful and respected with fear
  • Is skilled at being sneaky
  • Blames others often
  • Shows little compassion
  • Defensive often
  • Defiant and oppositional
  • Huge attention seeking with negative behavior
  • Impulsivity
  • Lack of coping skills 

Learn how to manage anger and stress and help the “bullies” you know cope:

 Call for a complimentary 20 minute phone consult 516 623 4353 or  balanceandpower

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Do you have enough fun and play?

I’m not talking about video games- or sex.  When you play tennis, golf, scrabble, bike, walk, ball, surf are you having fun?  Are you smiling and laughing along with laser focus or perhaps no thoughts at all?

Give yourself permission to have fun.  It’s healthy, and well, yeah, fun!

Access your inner child and see what happens!   Being happier is always an asset.

Do you know what frees you?  It’s dancing for me.  I’ve come to peace with physical modifications for myself in dancing and exercising.   Additionally, I’ve placed the concept of “dancing” into an intellectual-emotional realm of possibility: creativity for the soul. I encourage you to take time to pursue your fun passion and create new possibilities.

There is no such thing as having “life balance”  or “work-life balance” all the time.

There are, however, individual tolerations if the balance is tipped too far.

Be smart- stay in balance most of the time!  This will keep you healthy and less stressed.

If you are experiencing stress, frustration or insecurity due to challenges you are currently facing, contact me for a complimentary consult/strategy session: 516 623 4353               www.balanceandpower.com 

Stress Tips, Lifestyle Meditation, & Yoga Relaxation By Our Wellness Consultant

Here are some quick and easy suggestions to reduce stress right now:

  • Pay attention to your body, feelings, thoughts and intuitive self
  • Acknowledge personal stress cues and symptoms
  • Recognize your tolerance
  • Pause! Breathe! Detach! Relax! Take a mini-vacation!  
  • Change your internal environment
  • Connect with Nature
  • Physically release and focus: dance, walk, yoga, work-out, etc.  
  • Conduct internal “traffic control” several times a day
  • Meditate and center yourself
  • Embrace your personal power and spiritual connection

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Courses : Create Optimal Happiness & Productivity

Create Optimal Happiness & Productivity
by Eileen Lichtenstein
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6 Week Course
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(This is the total amount for all 6 lessons)

  • Are you ready for your life to be transformed?


  • Are you ready to reduce stress to optimal levels?


  • Can you imagine being happy most of the time?


  • Are you ready to make some personal shifts and see your career soar?


  • Learn how to get and stay inspired


  • Can you imagine being surrounded by positive people and creating optimal relationships?


Welcome to How to Create Optimal Happiness & Productivity - You are about to embark on a transformative journey of self-development that will guide you to amazing levels of happiness and abundance in your life. You will learn about components of happiness and productivity and how to apply it to your own circumstances. You will learn how to implement and adapt the strategies to your own life on an ongoing basis.

Eileen Lichtenstein is a Peak Performance Success and Certified Career Coach. Her goal is to promote Optimal Wellness and Productivity in your life. Using goal setting, accountablity and stress and time management, she has helped and guided countless individuals and business executives, educators and financial experts – empowering all to achieve their dreams and goals.

Stress Mangement:
During this course Eileen will take you through her amazing Stress and Time Mangement techniques so you can learn how to be happier, communicate more effectively and find the balance in your life you are looking for.

Aging is the body’s reaction to environmental and psychological stress. How we deal with stress profoundly affects the way we look and feel. Eileen gives you several very effective techniques to deal with stress in your life.


Effective Time Mangement:
You will learn to recognize what isn’t working in your life and will be given the tools to assist you in the awareness necessary for your transformation to leading a balanced life.

Emotional Freedom Technique:
You will learn beginning Emotional Freedom Technique, also known at EFT/ tapping, so you can use your own body’s energies to remove negative emotions. It has been called the modern version of ‘acupuncture without the needles’ and ‘acupressure without pain’.

Cognitive Distortions:
Cognitive distortions are exaggerated and irrational thoughts which can hold us back from our true potential. Eliminating these distortions and negative thoughts can improve mood, reduce stress and discourage such maladies such as depression and anxiety. During this course Eileen will walk you through these Cognitive Distortions so you can maximize your potential.

How To Break The Conflict Cycle:
Eileen will show you how to break the ‘Conflict Cycle’ and how to ‘Access Your Best Communication Style’.

If you are ready to make the 6 week commitment,
you will leave this course with:

  • increased confidence
  • improved self-esteem
  • a healthy and well-adjusted mind and body


Your Business and Your Life:
This course can start turning your ailing business – or life – around.
Even if you’re doing well, this course will propel you to a higher level of success and happiness! Thinking about becoming an entrepreneur? Looking for a career change, a reinvention?

And if you are simply feeling overwhelmed with life, “sandwich generation” or parenting issues, this program will help get you get unstuck, be fearless andCreate Optimal Happiness & Productivity!

What You Will Learn: 

  • How to reduce stress


  • Personal Goal Setting


  • Overcoming Obstacles


  • Setting limits


  • Relationship building and effective communication


  • How to get and stay inspired
What You Will Gain: 

  • Increased Self Confidence


  • Peace of Mind


  • Balance


  • Higher Income Potential


  • A Feeling of Well Being and Improved Health


  • A Better Understanding of Your True Capabilities


The time is now:
Start taking your personal or professional life to a higher level of success and satisfaction. In this course Eileen takes you through her personal journey of accomplishment while showing how you too can achieve the same peace and balance she has achieved in her own life.

About Eileen:
I’ve overcome obstacles in areas of my life… After battling colitis for many years, I found a holistic approach to healing myself that worked wonderfully together with my medical care. My participation in modalities incorporating positive thinking, affirmations, relaxation breathing, exercise and stretching were instrumental to my conquering colitis and became part of my Moving Meditation® Fitness audio program.

16 years ago, I was involved in a pedestrian accident in which my right foot was run over by a van, which left me with five breaks in a bone in my foot. During my recovery I was asked by a local physician to help write a curriculum for a new stress-reduction program he was developing. He encouraged me to read John Kabot-Zinn’s Full Catastrophe Living” and Herbert Benson’s “The Relaxation Response”, which turned my negative attitude towards recovery around and were catalysts to my healing and I was able to teach Hatha yoga for this course within a few months.

I was dealing with a severely broken foot, which had huge amounts of tissue damage. During this time of healing, with my prognosis unknown,I decided to become a trained bio-feedback therapist as well as work in that field in order to have career “back-up” because of my unknown prognosis.

The mind-body connection, the autogenic and relaxation training plus counseling techniques contributed significantly to my own healing; a powerful reinforcement of the power of the mind-body connection. I was also greatly impacted during this time by professional training at the Omega Institute with Dr. Kabat-Zinn, who founded the Center for Mindfulness Based Stress-Reduction Programs at the University of Massachusetts Medical Center. The training was pivotal in integrating all the work I was doing and clarified my goal to be trained as a professional coach. I then went on to the Corporate Coach University, a branch of Coach U and recognized by the International Coach Federation.

Since then I have been and continue to be inspired by the impact people can have on their lives when they choose to manage and reduce stress. I am honored to be a part of that process in anyway that I can.

This is What People Are Saying About “How to Create Optimal Happiness & Productivity” and Eileen’s coaching:

“Eileen’s interactive program is both enlightening and motivating. Eileen truly partners with you as your Peak Performance Success and Career Coach as she takes you step-by-step through her process of achieving success.”
- Dawn Abraham, Life and Business Coach
http://www.motivationalwhisperers.com

“Anyone who wants to achieve his or her potential will benefit by taking this course. It’s down to earth and will empower you to achieve your dreams.”
- Ted Fattoross, CEO/Founder http://www.joinnetworkplus.com

“Eileen is truly an amazing life coach. She is great to work with. If you are looking to reach goals that you think are almost impossible to attain, whether career or personal, … She will get you there…and quickly!” 
- Susan Brozinsky

“Eileen Lichtenstein’s wealth of experience and knowledge of executive coaching combined with the Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) have created a positive life energy within me to help get on the road to achieving my goals and dreams. Thanks Eileen!”
- Dr. Bruce Kesten, Kinesiology Chiropractor

Are you ready for your life to be transformed?
Join Eileen now for this 6 week course and get ready to Create Optimal Happiness & Productivity!

Eileen Lichtenstein, President Balance and Power™ Inc., is a Peak Performance Success Life and Career Coach and the author of “SOAR! with Resilience™: The Interactive Book for Overcoming Obstacles & Achieving Success”





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Daily OM 6 Week On-line Course: Create Optimal Happiness & Productivity
by Eileen Lichtenstein


Daily OM on-line courses are available from bestselling authors and talented experts. Take each lesson on-line or print as they become available. Your first lesson will be available immediately after you enroll. If you have already enrolled in a course, you can login to your available lessons.

    • Are you ready for your life to be transformed?

 

    • Are you ready to reduce stress to optimal levels?

 

    • Can you imagine being happy most of the time?

 

    • Are you ready to make some personal shifts and see your career soar?

 

    • Learn how to get and stay inspired

 

  • Can you imagine being surrounded by positive people and creating optimal relationships?

Embark on a transformative journey of self-development that will guide you to amazing levels of happiness and abundance in your life. You will learn about components of happiness and productivity and how to apply it to your own circumstances. You will learn how to implement and adapt the strategies to your own life on an ongoing basis. (read more..)

Register Here for Eileen’s OM Course:
Create Optimal Happiness & Productivity

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If you struggle with food or weight issues
in any way I want to recommend a video for
you to watch right now…

It will only take you a few minutes and it
will have a profound impact on you, in a
very tangible way that you'll be able to
feel right as you watch.

The video is of EFT expert Carol Look using
EFT Tapping with an audience member at a live
event called "The Tapping Experience", to help
her overcome her overpowering food cravings.  

Here's what I recommend…

Watch the video and as you do, do the EFT Tapping
along with them.  Even if you don't know how to
do Tapping just copy what they're doing and
repeat what they're saying as if you were
one of the members of the audience.

And as you do you'll begin to feel how effective
EFT Tapping is in helping people get to the
root cause of food and we*ght issues and how
it is used to resolve these issues quickly.

Here's the link to the video:

http://www.thetappingsolution.com/cmd.php?Clk=4419279

One interesting thing that you'll realize
when watching is that your food issues aren't
about the food…

Yup, that's right…they are NOT about the food.  

You'll get to find out what they ARE about as
you watch the video and tap along.

This is some powerful stuff that can have an
immediate impact on your life.

http://www.thetappingsolution.com/cmd.php?Clk=4419279

Enjoy the video and make sure to share your
comments on how the video effected you on the
blog after you watch.

Eileen Lichtenstein

P.S. - Up to this point you've probably just
been told to deal with we*ght issues by eating
less and exercising more.  It hasn't been that
easy though has it?  

You're about to find out that there's more to
it than that but there's a simple solution… 

 http://www.thetappingexperience.com/EFT/

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You are absolutely ready to transform stress into success if you say or think the following:

“I can’t cope!”

“I’m tired of being angry!”

“I never have enough time for my family, forget about myself:)!”

“I don’t have enough energy to go out or to exercise.”

“I don’t seem to get anything accomplished.”

“I spend too much time working.”

“My relationship (marriage) is in trouble…”

These are statements that I hear everyday from my clients and at small business networking meet-ups.  When you attend my interactive virtual or in person trainings and Motivational Whisperer Master Mind (TBA!), and as an individual client, you will learn strategies and techniques to help you cope with daily stress, increase productivity, enhance relationships and boost your bottom line and empower you.  Miscommunications at home and among staff will lessen, complex demands juggling home and work will balance and frustration-anger thresholds will rise, as will productivity.

When you are in this group or work with me individually, you will:

  • Learn to identify blocks keeping you stuck in negative patterns
  • Learn to recognize triggers which cause blocks
  • Learn how to be proactive in dealing with stressors
  • Experience and practice techniques that increase productivity and reduce stress:  Visualizations for Success, Positive Languaging, Relaxation Breathing , EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques, meridian tapping  see demo videos, Goal Setting, Time Management and Prioritizing Strategies.
  • “SOAR! with Resilience” Soar-Cover-Small.JPG

Contact me for a Complimentary Consult!:

516 623 4353  www.balanceandpower.com

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I found myself a little bit crazy, overworked,
and just not able to get to that deep place
of peace where I love to be for part of my day..

So I did some tapping (EFT) on it, and had some
significant shifts in stress relief and attitude.

I’m going to share with you several of
those tapping scripts below.

Work on the one that resonates most for you,
tap on them all if you want to, and pay particular
attention to what comes up for YOU.

So if you’re tapping with one of these scripts
and a particular project comes to mind, or
stress about a situation, tap on that specifically.

The more SPECIFIC you can get with your
personal stuff, the better results you’ll have.

If you don’t know the points or want further
instruction on how to do the tapping, you
can find it here: http://www.balanceandpower.com/eft.php

1.  General Overwork and Overstress

Karate Chop:  Even though I’m totally overworked,
really stressed out and have WAY too much to
do…. I deeply and completely accept myself

(Repeat the above phrase three times while
Tapping on the karate chop point)

Eyebrow: Way too much to do…
Side of the Eye:  My “to-do” list is a mile long…
Under Eye: When will I ever get it done?
Under Nose: I’ll never get it done…
Under Mouth: I’m overworked and stressed out….
Collarbone: When can I relax?
Under the Arm: I can’t seem to relax
Top of the Head: Too much to do…

(Repeat the above phrases a couple of times,
you can throw in your own phrases as well, and
when you feel significant relief, move on to
the positive phrases)

Eyebrow: I chose to relax now…
Side of the Eye: I chose to REALLY relax now…
Under the Eye: I’ll never get it ALL done…
Under Nose: And that’s ok…
Under Mouth: I chose to slow down and take a breath…
Collarbone: I am not my “to-do” list…
Under the Arm: I am good enough no matter
what I get done…
Top of the Head: I chose to relax and let it go now…

2.  Cultural Drive To Do More and Be More

Karate Chop:  Even though society says I need
to work harder, to do more, be more and never stop,
I deeply and completely accept myself

(Repeat the above phrase three times while tapping
on the karate chop point)

Eyebrow: I need to keep working…
Side of the Eye: I have to do more…
Under Eye: I need to be more…
Under Nose: I can never stop…
Under Mouth: I have to keep up…
Collarbone: Need to keep going…
Under the Arm: Can never stop…
Top of the Head: Gotta keep going…

(Repeat the above phrases a couple of times,
you can throw in your own phrases as well, and
when you feel significant relief, move on to
the positive phrases)

Eyebrow: I chose to slow down….
Side of the Eye: I chose to breathe….
Under Eye: I am perfect as I am….
Under Nose: I can chose my own way…
Under Mouth: I don’t have to be like anyone else….
Collarbone: Society can keep going crazy, I chose
to relax…
Under the Arm: I choose whether to work more or not…
Top of the Head: It’s all within my control….

Keep tapping until you get relief!

These are just general phrases to get you started and
bring you some relief.

Make sure to pay attention to what came up for YOU.

Jot down whatever specific event, issue or memory these
phrases triggered, and then work on tapping those
down.

I offer a complimentary consult via phone or skype to re EFT ansd Peak Performance Success Coaching with several packages available to help empower you to be your happiest, most productive self.

Comment on this blog and let me know what kind of
results you had from this tapping.  :)

I will be facilitating an EFT-Relaxation-Visualization  Peak Performance Success Coaching session to transform procrastination in the venue below:

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